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    Default POF minor shit test

    So, I was sarging out POF last night using my standard opener. One particular lovely lady decided to send a shit test my way. Obviously, it's a shit test or else she would have just ignored my opener. I can tell some interest is there too based off her response. Anyway, help on how to respond would be appreciated. Here it is:

    Her: Haha, very nice description. But I went to your profile. Says dating but nothing serious. Im here for something serious. So we'd waste each others time.

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    Default Re: POF minor shit test

    I'd probably just move on personally, since your interests and her interests aren't likely going to align. But if you want to keep going with it, you can always try a response that changes the frame.

    On the topic of "seriousness":
    "It's only wasting time if you're not enjoying yourself. [followed by a question that changes the subject]"

    "I've been called a lot of things, but never a waste of time. I challenge you to grab a drink with me and still hold that opinion by the end of it!"

    "Life's too short to take it seriously, so why take dating too seriously?"
    Just deflecting the topic to something else:
    "What? You went to my profile? Most girls don't get past my profile pic before clamoring over themselves to message me back :P"
    Just make sure you control the frame and she'll respond back to you. But like I said, when your interests don't align with your targets your just setting everyone up for a fall. If a girl is serious about her position of not wanting a fling, I respect that and make a decision as to whether I'm interested in something a bit more serious or not.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: POF minor shit test

    Thanks brother. Those are some great friggin responses!

    It's not like I'm not open for a relationshp. I'm just not actively seeking one like she is. I feel like when you go looking for a relationship, people have a tendency to settle, even if they're not happy. I prefer a more natural process. If 2 people click and they want to progress things, than so be it.

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    Default Re: POF minor shit test

    Not judging you bud

    I was just saying that if you're not open for the possibility of a relationship, then going after a girl who is exclusively looking for one is a bad idea. But if you're open to the possibility then that's a different story and would continue with the conversation.

    I am personally always open for a relationship or whatever is going to happen. Like you, I don't like to rule things out before they happen.
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    Default Re: POF minor shit test

    No worries bro. Shit Dukester, you know how to get to a man's heart. If I was chick I'd totally holler at that bahaha...no homo zone

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    Default Re: POF minor shit test

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    "Life's too short to take it seriously, so why take dating too seriously?"
    That's my favorite of Duke's suggestions. Don't fall into her frame. She likes you or else she wouldn't talk to you.

    Women who take a free dating site seriously are women I don't want to get involved with personally. It's a FREE DATING SITE!! Why would she expect something serious? Spend $17 and go on Match if you want a relationship, lol

    I'd personally respond with "lol you're probably right- what are you up to?"
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