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Thread: I Dont know what I got wrong

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    Question I Dont know what I got wrong

    We met one day at work and she called out my name, I didnt know who she was at first but then I realized that I went to her old school. We quickly established rapport and began to talk when we bumped into each other at work. One day I asked her if she wanted to see a movie And hangout, without thinking inmeditally she said yes and then I told her to give me her number over facebook because we were at work. One day later she gave me the number and we started texting, she gave a lot of IOIs and I made sure to include a lot of hooks. we talked about our old school and then people that we knew together. In the end she brought up the movie and asked if any of my friends is coming. I said I invited one but he's buried under homework so he probably won't be able to come. then she texted me saying she has to ask her mom but she was sure that her mom was going to say yes. Then we kept on talking and then Thursday night she texted me and told me that they are going to a Christmas dinner that day so she can't. I saw the text but I was getting ready to go to bed so I didnt reply until the next morning with a "ya no worries!" And she stopped texting. the next day I asked her at 7pm how was the dinner and she replied

    "My dad has not gotten back from Toronto yet his flight is delayed so I think they cancelled it :/ "

    I saw the text a hour later and I replied

    "Haha to bad lol my friend made me buy her food at Chinook today lol"

    After that she stopped texting me. What did I do wrong? I got too much texts to type all out but I'll be able to copy parts if you need more info.
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    Default Re: I Dont know what I got wrong

    Way too many haha's lol's. Those aren't necessary, they are actually annoying when you add that many into a text. That's how you responded to her text about a cancelled dinner? I don't get what you were trying to get at here? That you bought your friend a dinner at some place? Did you even actually do that or were you trying to make her jealous by mentioning another girl? Either way not a good move in my opinion.

    Think about it. What is she supposed to say too that anyways? I wouldn't have texted her that night. I would have waited a day or two then tried to set up another meet. That's really all the advice I can give you. I don't use text to talk or banter, just to set stuff up. That's all the advice I can give you. I'm sure others will chime in on this.

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    Default Re: I Dont know what I got wrong

    Well my last text I thought she would reply again because I gave a hook and there were 14 times where she replied when I didnt give obuis hooks before (that's about 3/5 of the time) and she said a lot of hahas. I guess the hahas can be annoying so I'll do less of that but the buying food part was real ( although it was her winning a bet and I had to buy her a cookie ) but I was hoping that would subtlety dhv. I guess that was the problem right?
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    Default Re: I Dont know what I got wrong

    Just don't text her for a while, she's use to texting you now, so you new to cut it off for a little to keep things interesting.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: I Dont know what I got wrong

    Okay thanks man, anything else you think might help me out?
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    Default Re: I Dont know what I got wrong

    Hey man,
    the reason why the dhv didnt work to its effect was the fact that in that it looked like she tricked you.
    Could have gone with how you lost the question game and had to buy a girl lunch and how she wanted to put some in your mouth.
    Even though av been tried to be fed i have not bought lunch recently.however i like how you are throwing it out there.you may write some on forum and compare.
    In a nutshell on that one in case you have not texted after that.
    'Well to be precise lost ques game and had to buy..couldnt believe she wanted to put some inside my mouth..noticed something about you'
    even if you have may shoot for that..

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    Default Re: I Dont know what I got wrong

    What you got wrong was simple. You mistook her for a friend you can actually trust. You can't farking trust women dude. For example she sh!t tested you about the meet by putting you on airs "Yeah I would love to go!" then she did what we call "flaking" and said "I don't know I have this I have that" which is a bogus excuse to sh!t test your manhood to coming up with a witty reply.

    My last GF was 43 and she did the same thing to me about our first date. Told me she would "love" to see me after we met at the Club. Then next day I text her "I don't know my daughter's car just died" then I told her "Do whatever you want I am going either way" I don't really know what exactly I said but it was extremely laidback and calm and she was like "Wait, I think I can go!" all excited and starts asking question and actually showed up.


    On top of that she lied to you. You should have texted her back right away which killed the attraction right away since you waited due to insecurity and texted her with some weak sauce bologne the next day. Only freeze her out if you are really going to push her buttons. She lied to you about it being cancelled since there is no real way to know if this Christmas dinner actually existed. Remember never give false trust to a woman unless they actually deserve it. Just go with the flow and believe only their actions and a small percentage of their words. Never give a woman too much trust. Trust your friends but don't trust your girls. But don't treat them like crap either just be a gentleman but you have to know that you know the gig is up. She is playing you dawg. She is playing you dawg. Pass the sh!t tests with flying colors by "knowing" she is playing you and playing it back on her and you win everytime for she can never fool you. You lose the game when you believe everything they say.
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    Default Re: I Dont know what I got wrong

    Alright thanks I never noticed these things to be shit tests. But I realized that now. I guess I hurt my game with her but what's the chances that you think I can recover with this one? Next time I think I'll meet her is the 21st working.
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