Re: I Dont know what I got wrong
What you got wrong was simple. You mistook her for a friend you can actually trust. You can't farking trust women dude. For example she sh!t tested you about the meet by putting you on airs "Yeah I would love to go!" then she did what we call "flaking" and said "I don't know I have this I have that" which is a bogus excuse to sh!t test your manhood to coming up with a witty reply.
My last GF was 43 and she did the same thing to me about our first date. Told me she would "love" to see me after we met at the Club. Then next day I text her "I don't know my daughter's car just died" then I told her "Do whatever you want I am going either way" I don't really know what exactly I said but it was extremely laidback and calm and she was like "Wait, I think I can go!" all excited and starts asking question and actually showed up.
On top of that she lied to you. You should have texted her back right away which killed the attraction right away since you waited due to insecurity and texted her with some weak sauce bologne the next day. Only freeze her out if you are really going to push her buttons. She lied to you about it being cancelled since there is no real way to know if this Christmas dinner actually existed. Remember never give false trust to a woman unless they actually deserve it. Just go with the flow and believe only their actions and a small percentage of their words. Never give a woman too much trust. Trust your friends but don't trust your girls. But don't treat them like crap either just be a gentleman but you have to know that you know the gig is up. She is playing you dawg. She is playing you dawg. Pass the sh!t tests with flying colors by "knowing" she is playing you and playing it back on her and you win everytime for she can never fool you. You lose the game when you believe everything they say.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.