Just wanted to thank everyone who had previously replied to my posts. It all helped. I'm much better now with game in general and plan to write a proper post detailing my journey.
I still however have the odd issue. I met this HB9 Swede in nz (very rare here). We go out e with her friend and mine, then on the weekend get a text from here saying come to town. She gets harassed in the first club and feels uncomfortable (still not sure how to deal with guys being overtly sexual with a girl I'm with at a club) anyway she pulls me out so we go.
One of her friends gets pulled away by a guy on a bike, they think basically kidnapped, she gets a call from her saying help... We go find her and take her elsewhere but this ruins what mood is left. There are now 5 of us my friend and 2 of hers.
At the next club everything gets back on track, we dance and laugh. I pull her out and all goes well, we hook up etc. Friends text her to come back, they are still in a weird mood after the bike thing and decide to ask stay together that night.as we leave one friend asks me what is my name, I have no idea... But things end okish...
I text her later no reply. Then ask if she had been kidnapped, she replies she's away on holiday. I text the next week saying come to dinner and get a I like you as a friend text. What do I do? I want to send a text today so it doesn't seem like it concerns me but also want more than just being friends... I feel if I can get her out though I can move past this.