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    Default Friend zoned

    Hey all,

    Just wanted to thank everyone who had previously replied to my posts. It all helped. I'm much better now with game in general and plan to write a proper post detailing my journey.

    I still however have the odd issue. I met this HB9 Swede in nz (very rare here). We go out e with her friend and mine, then on the weekend get a text from here saying come to town. She gets harassed in the first club and feels uncomfortable (still not sure how to deal with guys being overtly sexual with a girl I'm with at a club) anyway she pulls me out so we go.

    One of her friends gets pulled away by a guy on a bike, they think basically kidnapped, she gets a call from her saying help... We go find her and take her elsewhere but this ruins what mood is left. There are now 5 of us my friend and 2 of hers.

    At the next club everything gets back on track, we dance and laugh. I pull her out and all goes well, we hook up etc. Friends text her to come back, they are still in a weird mood after the bike thing and decide to ask stay together that night.as we leave one friend asks me what is my name, I have no idea... But things end okish...

    I text her later no reply. Then ask if she had been kidnapped, she replies she's away on holiday. I text the next week saying come to dinner and get a I like you as a friend text. What do I do? I want to send a text today so it doesn't seem like it concerns me but also want more than just being friends... I feel if I can get her out though I can move past this.

    Thanks again

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    Default Re: Friend zoned

    A few decisions I believe you can make in this situation. You can forget her and keep on trucking, cutting all communication. B, you can act as if she had never said it, do some pushing, never let her treat you as a door mat (that goes with any situation) and keep flirting, getting her out with friends is important so she feels its comfortable and not a date. When out, don't pay too much attention to her, show interest in other girls when you are out, this can make her jealous and wonder why you aren't showing the same interest as before. That is a hard road to fight back to once she has made that decision, but it is possible my friend, I had a girl that friend zoned me epicly and I played every wrong move only pushing me further in, but over time I sharpened myself and stopped being her shoulder to cry on, eveutually she was eating up everything I said and wanted a life with me, but time took its course, I moved out of state and everything fizzled off. So I am saying, it is possible, finally, you can use the friendship to your advantage, let her be your wingwoman and hook you up. If she makes excuses saying oh she isn't good for you or tries to cock block, well she still has a thing for you. If she acts like she is into being a wingwoman but avoids you, she does not want to be used as a wingwoman, so just drop her. Choose the route you think is best, or mix and match for best results. Hope this helps bud.

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    Default Re: Friend zoned

    Don't text her. Think you over texted, which caused the issue. Hold off for a while, then meet her out at the club. You need her to see you with other girls at this point that will help build more attraction by demonstrating pre-selection. Good luck!
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