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    Default Send "aaaah help" as opener. Quick help needed

    Hey guys


    Quick story short:
    I was searching for a first good opener to text.. Wanted go to with knock knock but changed to "aaaah help! "

    now she already went to bed so she will only respond in the morning. (7hours left)
    She will probably ask what's wrong and who I'm.

    And I would answer: I'm nervous about a solicitation meeting I've tomorrow. (If i say that she will immediately know i'm.
    But than i thought i would sound insecure because i'm nervous for the meeting what is not very attractive..

    So my question to you guys, help me out of here with a good answer I can give when she answers my text.

    Would really appreciate it

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    Default Re: Send "aaaah help" as opener. Quick help needed

    Umm, wait to see if she even replies?
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Ojjan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Send "aaaah help" as opener. Quick help needed

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Umm, wait to see if she even replies?
    She will, I'm that sure! aL So wanne help me out?

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    Default Re: Send "aaaah help" as opener. Quick help needed

    Quote Originally Posted by Ojjan View Post
    Hey guys


    Quick story short:
    I was searching for a first good opener to text.. Wanted go to with knock knock but changed to "aaaah help! "

    now she already went to bed so she will only respond in the morning. (7hours left)
    She will probably ask what's wrong and who I'm.

    And I would answer: I'm nervous about a solicitation meeting I've tomorrow. (If i say that she will immediately know i'm.
    But than i thought i would sound insecure because i'm nervous for the meeting what is not very attractive..

    So my question to you guys, help me out of here with a good answer I can give when she answers my text.

    Would really appreciate it
    Okay, how do you know this girl? Is this some random whose number you got from a bar?

    I'm not too sure I like your opener. This girl doesn't even know you but you are asking for her help on something already. Most women will be able to see right through this approach. The first few texts are key. You have to spike her emotional state and grab her interest. One thing I will do is make a reference to an inside joke from the night I got her number. That's why it's important to seed role plays and callback humor into your initial interaction. Whatever I teased her about in the initial conversation, I'll open with that. Example, if I told her I was going to divorce her and take half her money I might text with something like:

    "The alimony checks are late you dork"

    When I used to get a girl's number, I would wait a day or two before texting. This strategy produced mixed results for me, especially If the initial interaction was rushed or short. Now, I'll text them right after I get their number, usually right in front of them. Some thing random and funny while the momentum is high.

    "I wanted to say you were cute but I get incredibly shy around girls and much rather hide behind my text msgs..."

    This way my number will be in their phone right off the bat. When she wakes up the next day and opens her text msgs, my number will be near the top of the list. For me personally, this tactic has worked effectively for me (about 90% for setting up day 2s). The only times I won't employ this tactic are if I obtained the number through warm approach or social circle game. That's when I find waiting a couple days before initiating contact works better since there is more sustained rapport with those kind of pick-ups. T-mal has a great texting guide in the forum archives that I suggest you look into.


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