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    Default Help with texting! Did not reply.

    Hey guys,

    I am new to the whole texting game so I need some advice.

    So I met this girl at a party HB8 we talked for a while and I had a Number Close. I texted her after two days and I got this conversation.

    Me: Hey (her name) it's Maurice nice to meet you here is my number catch you later.

    Her: hi Maurice haha thank you!!

    Three days later I decided to text her again

    Me: Hey there
    Her: Hi!! how is it going?
    Me: Good. Just ate some (delicious) falafel and I am texting you. So what are you up to?
    Her:What's falafel?? Like the spice?lol Going to slp soon.
    Me:Haha yea however I didn't make it spicy. Yea I still don't get why I am in college and going to bed so early.

    Afterwards i got no reply it's been two days. Should I text her? If so any good ideas to open? What should I have done differently?

    Thanks guys!

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    Default Re: Help with texting! Did not reply.

    Quote Originally Posted by moishi View Post
    Hey guys,

    I am new to the whole texting game so I need some advice.

    So I met this girl at a party HB8 we talked for a while and I had a Number Close. I texted her after two days and I got this conversation.

    Me: Hey (her name) it's Maurice nice to meet you here is my number catch you later.

    Her: hi Maurice haha thank you!!

    Three days later I decided to text her again

    Me: Hey there
    Her: Hi!! how is it going?
    Me: Good. Just ate some (delicious) falafel and I am texting you. So what are you up to?
    Her:What's falafel?? Like the spice?lol Going to slp soon.
    Me:Haha yea however I didn't make it spicy. Yea I still don't get why I am in college and going to bed so early.

    Afterwards i got no reply it's been two days. Should I text her? If so any good ideas to open? What should I have done differently?

    Thanks guys!
    To be totally honest, you need to improve your text game. I can't see anything REALLY funny/interesting/exciting that would urge the HB to text back right away. If I were you, I'd look up some threads here that deal with texting - you can find some pure GOLD stuffs.

    I don't know how much comfort, attraction you build with her personally - in my philosophy, texting is a tool to maintain, or if you play it right, even increase that attraction and comfort - and the main goal: set up a date!! So, yeah, she flaked out, but I guess if you run some tight text game and set up a date ASAP, you'll got it.

    Some point of your text game - of course, it's just my opinion, I'M sure there will be some more experienced PUA who back me up or argue with me:
    Your first text is just floating in the nothing. It's clear that you wrote her to let her know your number - that's the rationalistic part of it. But you have to write textes that effect her emotional part. Think of it: if you write a random text (Idk: "I just hit a penguin with me car driving home. I needed to breath her mouth-to-beak, but she's okay by now, I guess), you can make her laugh, impress her or anything - and still, she'll got your number. So you miss the first chance, because your first text has nothing special to say.
    As for letting her know who you are - I don't find it very good to explain yourself, even through text. I think of it this way: I'm the motherfuckin' alpha, she remembers me, she is waiting for me to text her - I don1t need to remind her who I am. So I NEVER text "Oh, it's Adam from this and there". I'd rather use some references from the place, situation or conversation we first met. I specially love giving nicknames to girls - so when I text her 'Hey {nickname}' - she know who I am, no need for explonation. Or the simpliest thing: I save HBs digits as the place I met her: if I pick her up in the bar 'Instant', I saved her number as 'Instant Kate', 'Instant Emma' etc. And I love using this names in texts.

    As for your following text games: you wrote, but without any intentions. You shuld always wrote this way: express some emotion, impact on her, and build towards something - for setting up a date for exapmle. This girls obviously likes you, she responded to actually nothings, like 'Hey there'.

    Learn some from threads, run tight texting game, and let us know how it goes. Good luck, bro.
    Adam Taylor

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    Default Re: Help with texting! Did not reply.

    VERY DRY TEXTS, the kind that put people to sleep

    REMEMBER;


    Being random works.

    And by that I mean completely random.
    Random times and random subjects. It makes her think you're out doing fun stuff and have a cool life.






    Adam ~ LOVE the penguin line ... FUNNY STUFF

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    Default Re: Help with texting! Did not reply.

    Don't fret if she doesn't text you back, just wait a few days and initiate again. If it keeps on going on then she MAY not be interested and you MAY need to move on( I specify may because sometimes the assumption may be wrong)
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Help with texting! Did not reply.

    Wait a couple days. If it's a girl I've gone on a date with, I'll wait 1-2 weeks. If I just met her, a few more days. Next time, end with an open-ended question, move toward scheduling a date/meet up. Light and playful is the name of the game. Good luck!
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