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Thread: Advice needed...K-closed after party and have a date lined up

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    Default Advice needed...K-closed after party and have a date lined up

    Brief background:

    K-closed this girl at a party I had recently and she was really into it. She texted me the next day saying thanks for inviting her and that she had a great time.

    Our text convo went like this:

    Her: Hey, thanks for having me over last night. You're scandalous..
    Me: LMAO, you're dangerous...and I'm all about it
    Her: Heheh
    Me: LOL this week...Ice Cream + Hot Chocalate + Movie = Winter Wonderdate
    Her: Are you asking me to eat ice cream and watch a movie with you...
    Me: Duhhhh what's your favorite flavor?
    Her: Cookie dough
    Me: Sounds good baby cakes...I'll let you know when I'm free
    Her: ok =]


    2 Days later

    Me: What's up sugar lips This friday at 8:32..bring your sweet tooth. Hot chocalate, ice cream and an xmas movie
    Her: Haha
    Her: Ok


    I was sort of discouraged by her response because it didn't seem very enthusiastic and perhaps like she could flake.

    MY QUESTION is...it's now the day of said date and I want to text her to confirm without sounding needy.

    I was thinking of something like:

    "I hope you don't plan on seducing me and sleeping over tonight...=]"

    This could put me in a bad situation if she takes it literally but I think it's obvious I'm just being playful.

    ANYWAYS, what do you guys think about the situation? Any suggestions for things to text, things to do on the date to dhv etc.?

    As usual, I appreciate your guys opinions!

    Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: Advice needed...K-closed after party and have a date lined up

    Man, great texts, tight game! I also like to confirm her feelings in the day of the date - pretty much the same way you mentioned. So I think what you wrote was great, let us know how it will goes!

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    Default Re: Advice needed...K-closed after party and have a date lined up

    Well, the way you set it up is a bit problematic, you went too fast. I would have done:

    "What's up sugar lips Get your sweet tooth ready for this Friday. Hot chocalate, ice cream and an xmas movie"
    Her: Haha
    Her: Ok

    And then: "Great! Let's meet at [meeting place] at 8:32 then"

    If you sneak the logistics bits into the banter, they will agree but you will have more flakes. By making them agree on the logistics part separately, you reduce a lot the risk of flaking
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    Default Re: Advice needed...K-closed after party and have a date lined up

    Don't text what you said you were going to text. Unless she REALLY REALLY likes you, that will trigger ASD. She didn't respond with more that Ok to your message because you never gave her a call to action to prompt a response. Her responding with anything is very impressive.
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