Re: How to become poly- while already in LTR?
I can guarantee you that the choices you want to make right now will make you "less alpha". It really isn't right, in every sense, to have more than one relationship running at once. You may not view it as wrong or unfair, but every girl involved will feel wronged, cheated, and used.
Like I was told a long time ago between all of the activities I did, you're going to have to make a choice. You have to pick one relationship and stick to it. If you want to have flings with multiple women, then don't have any girlfriends at all.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X