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    Default How good is this opener?

    alright I have a HB8 that ive been talking to for 7 months...i worked with her for 3 months. She's had a boyfriend the whole time. long story short she asked for my number when we first met and we've been texting since then. we havent hanged out she has trust issues with the boyfriend....blah blah blah

    I havent seen her in 3 months but her Interest is still really high. (if i dont text her after a few days she always text me.)

    Well to keep out of the friendzone i try to always incorporate some type of flirtyness into every conversation we have.

    Recently everytime she initiates i'll sometimes say "hey, princess". but recently ive switched to "Hey, cutie how are you?". this is assuming she initiates with a "hi,hey, whats up".

    I have alot of comfort and rapport with this chick. she NEVER brings the boyfriend up unless i ask what she did that day.

    My question is, is "hey cutie, whats up?" pretty solid? and should i stay away from "hey, princess" which im not a fan of anyways.

    basically i need something that will subtley plant the seed of anti friendzone/gets my needs/wants, across to her right from the beginning of the conversation.

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    Default Re: How good is this opener?

    Not very good. I don't like princess and I never open with "what's up?". You are essential playing textual grab ass with her and like cdharders would say, you might as well be masterbating. The fact that she reinitiates the texting with you means she has some interest level but she has a boyfriend. The abundance mentality here would dictate that you meet other girls in the meantime. I would keep texting her, but keep my investment level low and my expectations low. Maybe text once a week just to stay on her radar. If you actually are meeting other women, you will quickly forget about her. However, if you have no scruples and want to bang her, you have to push for the meet up. Texting means absolutely nothing and you can't physically escalate over the phone. Set up a date to see if she's serious. Ultimately I think you should just NEXT her and focus on other women. Check in with her every once in while and who knows? Her logistics might change and the boyfriend could be out of the picture but until that happens forget about her.

    PS: Read T-mal's texting guide available on this forum

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    Default Re: How good is this opener?

    And using "cutie" and "princess" too much just makes you look like one of the many guys that just wants sex from her. Try to be different
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: How good is this opener?

    Yes gentleman, i know full well of the shit storm im invloved in hahaha. This si the type of thing that either works or it doesnt. risk and reward. HOWEVER, I dont always use those openers i just recently tried them.

    I just need something to reply to her that conveys my intentions right from the start of the conversation.

    She initiates 85% of all communication. I've never really had to initiate much. She's going to college in June. So i need to stay relevant and far from friendzone. I want to keep her in my circle. she's 18 and the boyfriend is 17 and a senior in highschool. i'm 22 and almost done with college. i started talking to her when there relationship was only 2 months in.

    The only time I initiate is when she starts getting to the point of "Havent heard from you in awhile, thought id say hey..". then ill initiate

    so i need something to reply to her she always uses "hi, hey, whats up, aye". I need something that coveys flirting right from the start but is simple.


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