I have a girl who I went out with twice, that is my age. I am 3 months older than her and I am 25. The first two times it went pretty well. We just saw a movie each time, which wasn't ideal but I could live with it. The first time she canceled on me saying she had a cold. Then at 7 o'clock she texts me saying lets go see the movie Catching fire at 8. So I pick her up and we go see it, and she was in her pajamas for the first time we went out together. Not that I care about that.
Now I originally planned for our first time that we would go out to dinner. But she didn't know my plan was that. We go out a second time, and we saw American Hustle.
So for the third time I was going to surprise her and take her to a show on Xmas night (we are both Jewish). So I text her last night and here is how the chat goes so far:
ME: Keep Wednesday night on your calendar open.
ME: You + me = City.
ME: Just check to make sure you have nothing planned.
ME: I got a surprise for that night.
ME: Just make sure that you don't have any last minute plans.
HER: What is it
ME: If I told you then it wouldn't be a surprise
ME: Confirm with me and i'll make the arrangements right now.
HER: I'm not sure
HER: I don't plan
I then tried to call her and she didn't pick up. So she replied back to me like 20 minutes later and said
HER: Watching a movie.
ME: Same. I am watching Beverly Hills cop
ME: Anyway, I'll call you back in like an hour or so.
ME: Maybe more
ME: What are you up to all day.
ME: Same. Just a boooooring rainy day.
This is where we are now. Now, what I was originally going to do when I called her was tell her that she plans stuff all the time and say stuff like "what do you think you do when you go to work every day? You plan it" and stuff like that. But I couldn't get her on the phone last night for whatever reason.
My objective is to get her to say yes (without her trying to cancel or change plans) to Wednesday night but keep it a surprise.
She happens to not "plan" things as she says, which I believe, but I think she is more spontaneous than anything.
On our 2nd time out, we were going to go see a movie (a different one) then she asked if I wanted to see American Hustle instead of what I originally had planned. She is more spontaneous in my mind.
Where do I go from here?