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    Default Rules for texting?

    I'm curious. I'm good at building attraction, rapport, and sexual Tension through texting but I need to know; do we only text to set up dates and hang outs? I'm trying to stop my constant texting habit( I'm not being spontaneous anymore when I text them 3 times or more a week). Opinions welcomed
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    Default Re: Rules for texting?

    Generally, you want to use text only to basically set up logistics for dates and hangouts if possible. You're already good at building attraction, rapport and sexual Tension. Basically, just text less and/or text to set up details for a date or hangout only.
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    Default Re: Rules for texting?

    Generally I only view the phone as a logistical tool. Towards the beginning of the year I was extremely inexperienced as far as text game, then I started to ask for dates and guess what? Got replies up the yin yang. At first I was just dinking around trying to be funny or have fun and it backfired. When my game gets better I can play around and screw around with chicks a bit more on the phone but for now I am playing it by the book of what works and what doesn't.

    So now I mix it up as I know the general path (leading to dates) and sometimes I can dangle the carrot and tease them about a date without asking directly if I need to. I will start out with a Pick Up Line over text to get them laughing, might use a funny or flirty intro, but generally pick up lines or flirty intros to get going. Then I use the dating idea method for texting to string them along which works generally pretty well. Not always though so sometimes I talk about my life or something. My methods are generally Dating, Pick Up Lines, and My Life. Then when I start getting dates the texting starts coming through on their end and we could talk all night. Also I just have to keep winging it when I get a sh!t test I have to use the wit of fox to get out of taking tests and back to attraction. If my Pick Up line hits the mark then I can further continue the teasing and banter and eventually knowing where this is going bring up the date thing without calling it a date to keep the interaction going. Generally girls don't want to be my text buddy and the only way they will continue to talk to me for long periods is to go on dates and set future dates. That's just the way they play and I will always be dismissed for carrying things on too long without popping the question of if and when we are hanging out since girls will never ask, they are on the receiving end of playing this game. Wrong frame will chase them away as everything they do is based on a response not an initiation. Also I have tested the Pick Up Line first text idea and it worked very well once this year so next year I will be using it liberally since many of them are sexual innuendos.
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    Default Re: Rules for texting?

    Like you, I met a girl and i started texting her everyday (me and her both initiating). over a few months things began to become stale. only recently have we both cut back. Our conversations have more effort and curiosity in them. we aren't really struggling to find things to talk about.

    Ideally, you want to only text to set up dates. but i find texting to be a great bridge in between dates to keep things interesting.

    Not texting as often can definitely build attraction though.

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    Default Re: Rules for texting?

    Marvilo, texting is a misused tool of the PUA community. Texting should simply be a tool for setting up your next meeting, preferably at her request.

    The idea of building attraction, rapport, and sexual Tension through text seems exhausting. When you sarge initially, turn her on, push her buttons, make her wet in 30 to 45 minutes versus texting for days on end. Trust me, it will make your life so much easier.

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    Default Re: Rules for texting?

    Sauve is right, and even I am a proponent for texting. Texting is nice because you can actually have some time to think before you speak, but phone game can only get you so far. In the end, when it comes to getting a girlfriend, getting a wife, K-closing, or F-closing, it all depends on the in-person interactions. If you can't think and act on the fly in person, then you really are screwed.
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    Default Re: Rules for texting?

    Quote Originally Posted by Swagman View Post
    Sauve is right, and even I am a proponent for texting. Texting is nice because you can actually have some time to think before you speak, but phone game can only get you so far. In the end, when it comes to getting a girlfriend, getting a wife, K-closing, or F-closing, it all depends on the in-person interactions. If you can't think and act on the fly in person, then you really are screwed.


    You and Sauve are right. That's what I wanted to hear but I feel like it's becoming a habit to text, I'm becoming dependent on texting. I need advice on how to stop it.
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    Default Re: Rules for texting?

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    You and Sauve are right. That's what I wanted to hear but I feel like it's becoming a habit to text, I'm becoming dependent on texting. I need advice on how to stop it.
    The answer is right in front of you: less texting, more in-person interactions. Go out into public and do more approaches and pickups. Try to meet up more often. Just do things that increases the amount of time you talk face to face with your targets.
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    Default Re: Rules for texting?

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    You and Sauve are right. That's what I wanted to hear but I feel like it's becoming a habit tiio text, I'm becoming dependent on texting. I need advice on how to stop it.
    Your goal should not be to get a phone number in the first place. your goal should be to seduce her in person on the first meeting. that mentality alone will cure most of your dependency on texting. if you become successful, you won't have to worry about texting. it'll start to feel almost useless.

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    Default Re: Rules for texting?

    Yeah I get your point but honestly I'm better at seducing women in person than texting but then I still feel like I missed out on something once I'm not with them in person ( I.e should have kissed her, should have tried this or this). In the end all those start to come back at me and then I feel the need to text them to get "even"
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