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Thread: Text game fails, advice please!!!

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    Default Text game fails, advice please!!!

    Hey guys Iím texting both girls at the same time. We canít meet up because itís currently term break and we live in different countries.

    Girl 1 (HB 8.0) has dropped several IOIs but I always ignore them. She complimented me once in front of class on my shirt, and has always dropped me quick glances. The tension between us is exciting. Sheís gotten a boyfriend since the major ioi, although she still looks at me subtly.

    G1: you sure you're not a jealous possessive guy?
    G1: I thot most of the guys thot they aren't but they actually are jealous all the time lol
    Me: Stop hanging out with losers
    G1: what seriously lol
    G1: my last two boyfriends are jealous of my close guy friends.. which makes it very hard for me
    Me: why? because they're better
    Me: we should be discreet
    G1: well no but because they think I have close relationship with my friends as well as physical contact like hugs and kisses on the cheeks.. chatting through facebook is discreet xp
    Me: coming to my room at 12am is discreet too, no one sees
    Me: but of course, you're third in line so you're rather insignificant
    Me: and i hope you're not telling anyone about our chats. I like privacy a lot
    G1: I think you just enjoy being mysterious
    G1: well a young uptight brat can never climb to the top
    Me: ha, you got me there. well, you can climb on top of me but geez you'd be heavy
    G1: haha you worry about that im not that into being your favourite brat xp
    Me: Do I?
    Me: Replacements are easy to find, darling
    G1: I know you don't im just hoping you do haha
    G1: but im competitive
    G1: I've only been talking to you for like a week or two and I'm already your third favourite brat
    Me: I count it by the number of times I've been seduced. You're getting there, but try harder
    G1: nahh don't wanna replace your first and second
    G1: they'll hate me
    Me: like I said, cutie, privacy is the name of the game
    G1: you want your stuff to be private just so you can get other girls
    Me: So smart. I like you more. I'm sure you're not the jealous sort, are you?
    G1: haha i don't know
    G1: but ive never been jealous of my boyfriend
    G1: the point is you wanna be a player so badly!
    Me: Do I?
    G1: well I don't know
    but to me you sound like you wanna be one
    Me: you don't have to know. I want you, period
    Me: well then again, you worry too much
    G1: oh someone wants a brat with him
    G1: Do I...
    Me: nah, just kidding. why would I want you? Sorry for playing around
    G1: because im your third favourite brat? haha
    G1: but anyways you're not in young girls huh big boy
    G1: and merry Christmas!
    Me: Are you? I think you got demoted to the rubbish bin.
    Me: I'd like to feel young again, but I'm not sure you'd be able to handle me
    Me: Merry xmas to you too
    G1: I could qualify as your friend as well don't remote me to the rubbish bin...
    G1: you speak like you're 30 now...
    Me: I don't think a guy and a girl can be friends without coitus. well, that's from experience.

    Girl 2 (HB 9.0) also seemed interested irl. So I decided to talk to her, and we did hit it off quite well until..

    G2: Haha temperamental?? in what way, sir? Sorry sir! I am back!!
    Me: You make a good dog
    G2: _|_
    Me: you and your obsession with dicks I was referring to the dog in your profile picture
    Me: see what I mean? so temperamental
    G2: Pfft!! Ya right!
    G2: Merry Christmas btw!
    Me: Sigh. You're cute, sometimes, but too obscene
    Me: Merry xmas to you too
    G2: How am I obscene!!! Who was the one talking about being raped
    Me: I've had it with obscene girls like you
    G2: All the best finding less obscene girls then!
    Me: Thanks for your wishes. A good boy like me deserves a good girl
    Not a dipsy like you.
    G2: Pfft you can't afford me even if I could be bought.
    Me: Lol do you really think I care?
    I don't buy people. But if i do, i certainly wouldn't buy you
    G2: You've bad taste
    G2: So it's natural for you to feel that way

    Advice needed on how to escalate/rebound.

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    Default Re: Text game fails, advice please!!!

    Umm please my gosh tell me this is real!!! Game like a blade in the mist, like a sword in the wind, like a dagger in the heart. I wish my texting threads looked like that. They are a nightmare compared to this. Soooo printing this out. You acted fun, played hard to get, hot & cold, Push Pull, like all triggers man and you were a bit of a prick/ A-hole Nice Guy which I loved and clearly they loved it too. I can't give you any advice dude just use that killer strategy with girls you just met locals and stuff. I can't give you any advice shoot can you give me advice lol. Rock solid dang man. Like Bravo well played champ! 1 out of two girls liked it and by my math (30% for me) you got like a 50% winning strategy. Can't win them all but you certainly knocked the first one out of the park. In awe!!
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    Default Re: Text game fails, advice please!!!

    Hey man,

    Thanks for your kind words. I just got out of a two year committed relationship so I'm starting pickup again. Your encouragement was very much appreciated

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    Default Re: Text game fails, advice please!!!

    Here's the transcript from the next day.


    Me: hey brat, i'm resurrecting you from the bin. now you're cute but stinky
    G1: awww im stinky
    G1: should i feel honored for being resurrected from the bin
    Me: Congratulations. You've finally escaped the bin. Do you have any words of gratitude to express, my lady?
    G1: yes! happy boxing day! and ive followed your instagram
    Me: That's cute but stop stalking me, I'd rather you talk to me irl. secretly, of course
    G1: you do have to stress about being secretive don't you
    Me: I like privacy, give it to me and i'll give you what you want

    Thoughts
    I can't seem to escalate, she seems to be pulling away. She's taking hours on end to reply my messages. She already has a boyfriend and I want my reputation that's why I insist on privacy. Any advice fellas?

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    Default Re: Text game fails, advice please!!!

    Just out of curiosity …. Are these girls European !!?!??!?!?

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    Default Re: Text game fails, advice please!!!

    whoa! i like how this was played,out im taking notes. it may be a little too cocky but i like it. my suggestion is that youre doing a little too much push. try some more pulling to balance out. too much push would make you seem to much of a jerk and drive them away.and you double text alot ive noticed,never double text unless its necessary. try fitting it all into one text.that way it shows shes chasing you and that you aren't to invested.

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    Default Re: Text game fails, advice please!!!

    Definitely borderline cocky/arrogant. Dial back on that a bit.
    And a little too much push & not enough pull.

    It's one thing to be confident & playful with teasing & bantering, but mix in some "sweet" with the "sour".

    You're coming off as more of a player, than an experienced, confident, alpha man. (IMO)

    The good thing though, is that they kept responding, so you haven't shot yourself in the foot yet.
    But definitely learn to balance the cocky side & keep that to a minimum, while maintaining a fun playfulness.

    You're at least not wussing out... and you're expressing boldness, which, in and of itself is good; but again, start incorporating more "PULL" & reel them in more.



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