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    Default why ddn she respond?

    Sup gents

    Theres a gal i met at family gathering and we exchanged numbers, shes a HB7...nd id do....weve been texting back and forth and recently i tried escalating things and she did not respond,,,, heres how the convo went....

    Me: Aparently christmas is cancelled because u told santa u are good in bed and he died laughing..you ruined it for all of us...thanks jerk lol

    HB7: lol he probbly got a heart attack from the fact that I'm underestimating myself_ I mean what is good? Good is buying a pack of ciggies on discount_ m beyond that, if I shld say_ hahaha_don't hate!! :-p

    Me: lol with all that confidence, i bet youd look nice in high heels, a sexy skirt....and black tights for chrismas:-p

    HB7: Lol blk tights? What m I? 45yrs? Lol nah ah_ maybe nothing but a rain coat, since well ts raining

    Me: Lol uhm that would be sexy, il think about that. And maybe a few nawty things xx

    From then she did not respond, i guess she gave me a shit test and i failed it, what do you guys think

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    Default Re: why ddn she respond?

    There's two potential things that I see causing this to happen. The first one is that she may not be interested in you. The second thing is that it looks like you tried escalating things too quickly.

    The attraction process is as follows: you begin with a rapport stage, doing light banter and building up small amounts of rapport as you go. The conversations should always be fun and positive. Your next step is to escalate steadily into sexual talk. After that, it's all a matter of working the magic.

    It looks like you tried to go into overdrive with escalation. That last message also looked borderline pervy, so that's another problem. Escalation, as I stated, should be a gradual process. Do it too fast and she will think you are just horny. In addition, you need to be flirting beforehand and always driving the interaction in an entertaining way. If you miss any of these elements, your game falls apart.

    I would recommend searching around on the forums and doing some reading on the attraction process. You can find a ton of resources, and I think that would be the most beneficial to improving your game.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: why ddn she respond?

    See her in person. Don't sexually escalate over text. There's no value. Just find a way to meet. Wait 2 weeks and text "Hey rockstar, what are you up to ?"
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