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Thread: How to be Mysterious, need help

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    Default How to be Mysterious, need help

    Alright I need professional help on being more mysterious. If you've ever watched Mad Men then I'm talking about Don Draper. Knowing when to talk, sit and listen, just all the nine yard. Especially not talking about yourself and puting your whole business out there. Being Humble.
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    Default Re: How to be Mysterious, need help

    Just don't say as much.

    What you do say should be just enough to make someone *want* to hear more. Just a teaser.

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    Default Re: How to be Mysterious, need help

    People should earn the information about you. They have to invest in some way to deserve it.

    I have a big mouth too. I love to talk about myself, what I did that day, which girl I banged and blabla but it gets outta hand you know?

    In order to fix it, my Mindset turned into this: If a person hasn't done anything to earn my interest he/she is not gonna learn shit about me, cos I'm not gonna tell. Instead, I'll just let them talk and interrupt every once in a while.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: How to be Mysterious, need help

    See how little you can say about yourself. I've slept with girls who didn't know my name before. It's fascinating to see how little rapport you sometimes need with a girl to go home with her.
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    Default Re: How to be Mysterious, need help

    Exactly guys, that's what I've been noticing. Less rapport if better but I need help controlling my mouth because sometimes my ego and anger comes out when people annoy me and I just can't control it
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    Default Re: How to be Mysterious, need help

    Listening can be very powerful so can talking. Whenever I am in Set it's all about the Mojo man. My words are on the chopping block and the cliffhangers can create serendipity, the way it should be. Sometimes I will be talking talking and nothing. Then sometimes after running all this material I just stand there giving up in a way but waiting then they just accept it somehow sometimes and end up crumbling into compliance and I feel it but they want to see what I do. That's where I usually screw up, the clutch moments where I stop talking and she accepts me and I can't close. It's the strangest thing but girls are hard to game just stick with it. Having conversations is about creating chemistry and having fun. Flirting is a powerful tool that can break the barrier into a magical moment with the right timing. I don't know but I know guys have to carry the convo like it's our job. But listening is an important skill since sometimes they won't talk then you just go, go, go. But when they finally open up I love to listen I wish I had a hot girl yapping my head off everyday.

    To be a man of mystery you have to not care and be a bit crazy. Not all serious frame, serious frame. Solid game is about having skill and taking risks. Do the crazy calibrated acts to make the girls go gaga. Girls respond to fun guys so I guess fun guys who got girls rubbing their chest in the Club are a bit mysterious. It is also a bit mysterious when you see naturals in action and just sticking on the target you want and never letting go. I think AFC but like you never know she's not pushing him away so...do they end up together at the end of the night?

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    Default Re: How to be Mysterious, need help

    First of all you have to be extremely confident, and carry yourself as though you know secrets that nobody else does, especially in conversation. Don't broadcast your opinion or interject with your personal experience often.

    If a group is talking about a foreign country, a mysterious man will wear a smirk on his face. This will prompt somebody to ask his opinion, and he will then offer a few words. He will say the food was pleasant, and there was a great little tavern a few blocks from where he was staying on rue de rivoli in Paris. Then he slips back into the recess of his mind where he met a beautiful woman at said tavern and made love to her in a second story walk-up.

    In other words, I think you need major depth as a person to pull it off. Especially consistently.

    I forgot one thing. I think being a great story teller or just a good speaker is important, so then when you do speak it captivates people and they know there is something to you. If you don't talk much but when you do it is awkward people will just think that you are a shy awkward person.


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