I've been reading a bit about pua, kinda new to it, I'm sure it can apply to those who are attracted to the same sex too and I was wondering what you guys would do with this situation with this girl..
So back in the fall I asked a girl out from one of my summer classes in university. We met only a few times and we got along really well. We are both girls, and she did not know my orientation and I didn't know hers. Anyways, she had made me extra notes and I sent her a message saying that I'd like to buy her a coffee in exchange for those, that I'd like to take her on a date. She never answered.
So I concluded, she's obviously not interested if she isn't answering.
But then, she kept personally inviting me to facebook events, to which even one I saw was the only one she invited. Then, for fun i invited her to this other campus event, to which again she'd invite me to another event. So we were kind of playing a game of facebook events invitations. Keep in mind this was going on the month after which she still has not answered my message.
So I went to one of the campus events she invited me to. We had a pleasant conversation, laughed and finally I asked her straight up if she was a lesbian to which she shook her head and said she has a thing for guys. She then told me she didn't know if I meant it as friends or more when I sent her that message that's why she didn't answer. I thought I was pretty forward, we were never friends before, and I said date in the message.
Anyway, later the next day, I sent her a simple message thanking her for the invitation and then said semi-jokingly that my door is open if ever she changes her mind about that date, with a little wink emoticon. So she never answered that, and I just moved on to other things.
But a month after she invited me again to a campus event. She has over 1000 friends on facebook and I am amongst the only fifty she invites. I tried not to read into it, I just declined since I couldn't go and also it probably doesn't mean anything so there's no point that I go.
Months later after that, just recently, I put a status on facebook about a poem and she likes it. Now I don't want to be reading too much into it, it's just a facebook like, but then again keep in mind we were never really friends, we are just mere acquaintances and she has never liked any statuses that I put on facebook in the past. Also, If I put myself in her shoes I wouldn't like someone's status if I know they are into me and they asked me out in the past and hardly know them and I'm not interested.
And on top of that, a few days after that, she invites me to a campus event, again. I am amongst the close 40 she invites, out of a 1000 facebook friends she has. So she only chooses certain people to invite,
Again, a few days ago she invited me again to another event! This time it's not a campus event. But at a bar. I was one of the the only ones she invited.
Are these mixed signals? Am I right into thinking that these things above don't mean anything?
What would you guys do? Go to the event? I haven't RSVP to any of them so far