yeah... you just have to get comfortable spending time with woman in person. when you act differently online than you do in person, it gives her a false expectation of you and then sets her up for disappointment when you don't meet that expectation in real life. getting nervous is perfectly normal, you just have to learn to combat it. the more experience you get, the less nervous you'll be.Honestly, i farked this one up. I had all the balls in the world to ask her out online and she liked that, then i got nervous like a child when she actually said yeah. I think she picked up on that.