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Thread: went on a good date then she says "ill keep in touch" WTF!?

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    Default Re: went on a good date then she says "ill keep in touch" WTF!?

    Honestly, i farked this one up. I had all the balls in the world to ask her out online and she liked that, then i got nervous like a child when she actually said yeah. I think she picked up on that.
    yeah... you just have to get comfortable spending time with woman in person. when you act differently online than you do in person, it gives her a false expectation of you and then sets her up for disappointment when you don't meet that expectation in real life. getting nervous is perfectly normal, you just have to learn to combat it. the more experience you get, the less nervous you'll be.

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    Default Re: went on a good date then she says "ill keep in touch" WTF!?

    Thats why im here man, and i cant thank you enough for the help.

    Only going to get better with practice. Its very motivating to get rejected haha

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    Default Re: went on a good date then she says "ill keep in touch" WTF!?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    all too often guys try way too hard to use humor in their texts and end up being offensive or downright annoying.
    This is very important and more people should take note. I've seen some cringeworthy tries at humorous text openers on here. I've never had success with lines like that. Maybe others have, but it just isn't congruent with my personality.

    In the OP's situation I think he would have fared a lot better if he would have just went direct and asked her out on a second date from the get go. The last thing a girl wants is another guy trying to game her over text, that's common guy game. If you want to stand out cut the BS. I'm not from the school of, "Texting should only be used to set up dates" but I definitely think you should keep it minimal until you get to know a girl.

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    Default Re: went on a good date then she says "ill keep in touch" WTF!?

    I did it because i was nervous like a chump. This girl was gf material and it totally threw off my game. Im normally just short and to the point.

    Just got out of my frame, wont happen again.

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    Default Re: went on a good date then she says "ill keep in touch" WTF!?

    Don't be too hard on yourself. Thinking that a girl is gf material early on can really f*ck with your game, and I think everybody is guilty of making that mistake at least once.

    I don't advocate trying to downplay how awesome a girl might seem early on. I say, enjoy what excites you. Just know that it takes time to pass that kind of judgement. Some girls seem great at first, but as time goes by she might not be everything you thought she was. Hopefully knowing that will smooth out your game, and you will be able to sit back and say to yourself, "Wow, she seemed pretty cool. I'm going to play this out and see if she is still this cool in a month."

    This is a journey you are taking in steps. Keep that in mind.

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    Default Re: went on a good date then she says "ill keep in touch" WTF!?

    all that touching you said, but most import did you kissed her? come on girl initiated Kino she expected you to kiss her , and if you didnt she thought you are wimp(not alpha&dominant enough) , i kissed all my girls on first dates and they are eager to see me again, i seriously dont get it why guys dont do it, scenario 1 you kiss her and she likes it ,you progress and shes eager to see you again,she flinches, but its still not a bad thing cause it shows that you are confident and got balls to make move so how was it
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