Sorry for the wall of text but i think its necessary.
Okay so here's the situation.
I was seeing this girl for a while casually (3 months or so)and she really fell for me. Shes told me many times how im different and better than everyone shes been with, how no guy made her feel that way. I liked her too but I had just started trying absorb as much about game as possible and was determined to change my life. It wasn't about how much p$$$y I could get it was about developing myself because I had been frustrated for so long. It was too soon to turn in the single life. I'm 21 and haven't experienced all I wanted. Not to mention college life is a limited time.
She had tried to break it off a couple times because I wasn't going anywhere with it but we would also get back together. Most recently she did it again and was pretty serious about it. She started seeing someone and i knew it. However she agreed to come over as "Platonic" friends (lol). Sure enough the minute we were alone shes inching towards me so i scooted over behind her on the couch and put my arms around her. It lasted for a little then she got up cause she didnt think she should be doing it and went to leave. Instead i told her hang on and to come with me. She obliged reluctantly and i led her to my room because i had gotten her something small for christmas. At first she refused so we just talked. Finally she let her guard down and we ended up kissing and cuddling a bit. Im home for the holidays and cant really do much cause parents are home.
I asked her to join me back at school for new years and she asked me to come get coffee with her tonight to talk cause she doesnt trust herself alone with me. She told me this new guy wants her to be his girlfriend - within 2 weeks of dating. She was also telling me how hes already possessive and wants her to make sure she tells people shes his etc. "but hes soooo nice and a great guy" so she wants to give him a chance. She was debating telling him no so she could still see me. She really wanted to come with me for new years.
She ended up choosing giving him a chance and i just told her i respect her decision because honestly we have a pretty strong connection and just based on hearing about this guy so far it probably wont last.
Has anyone been in this situation? Im just not sure what to do at this point... do i sit back and wait? My new found enlightenment on all this tells me I should find a few girls and carry on enjoying life. - thats the best way to get her back without giving in to a relationship. Am i right?