I was dating a girl for 2 months, things were going well. We would text daily and meet every weekend.
Over the xmas holidays I was away on a trip with a buddy of mine. The girl bought me currency for the country I was visiting as an xmas present. The day before my trip we went out for dinner then I spent the night at hers.
We exchanged emails when I was away, she said she didnít think she would hear from me and was glad that she did, she gave me lots of chat and mentioned seeing her when I returned. I sent other email answering her email but didnít hear anything back. I had a missed call from her when I was away 2 days before I returned.
When I returned I text her a general text and she then ended it by text saying she wasnít feeling it. I asked to meet up, she replied hours later saying she didnít know what that would achieve. I replied that it was ok if she didnít want to meet, I only wanted a bit of closure and told her to take care.
That was a few days ago and I have had no contact since. I am pissed off as I have no idea what changed in the days before I returned and I am unsure what to do. I am thinking about just letting it go but I am unfortunately still thinking about it. My friends ran into her in a club 2 days before she ended it and she was quite drunk and asked if I was into her. They also said that she over reacted to a situation in the club between her friend and one of mine. They ended up staying with her in the club as her friend left and safely put her in a taxi home. Thats when she tried to phone me.
If she wasnít feeling it why did she invite me back to hers before I went? Why get me an xmas present? Why answer my first email mentioning meeting up again? Is she embarressed about her behaviour in the club? These thought are making me think I should try to contact her but I am undecided. Thoughts?