Re: Dating problems pls help
There's nothing wrong with having a girl plan the next date and finance it. It's generally good if she wants to push for the meetup and do the planning for it. I'd say a happy middle between the two of you should always be 50/50. She should be pushing for and planning half of the events while you do the other half.
As for the money issues, you have to be affirmative on the issue. You just simply need to tell her "Hey, I don't have a money tree, and it's getting tough to pay for everything. I would appreciate it if we started to split the costs 50/50 or you started paying for our activities once in a while". If she protests or tries to keep it on you, remain firm and don't give up any ground.
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