Re: Being insecure when my girlfriend is going to a bar
Those kids whose parents trust them to go out and be in control, tend to be the ones who are more responsible and never want to betray that mutual trust.
The same applies to trust in a relationship too. Counter-intuitively, the more freedom you give your partner the more faithful they will be to you.
The important issue you need to let go of is that she does not belong to you. She is her own person and you cannot control what decisions she makes. Once you understand this your insecurities will disappear.
It's time to drop use of the archaic 'HB' grading slang.
A modern, more descriptive, and complimentary system: A girl is...
Below your league / In your league / Above your league