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    Default Was I brushed off by her?

    I'm chatting online with a girl. Found out she is a flight attendant and she was going on a flight, so she told me she wants to talk to me during that time and to add her on BBM.

    Fast forward a few days. I told her we should chat on the phone on a certain day, it fell through. I did it again today, she said she's free at 9PM. At 9:10 I told her I cost money after 9 but I'll give her a discount this once, she said she's almost done dinner.

    Fast forward: It's 10:40PM and no contact. I messaged "You must be really hungry lol", and at 6AM I get a message about how she fell asleep. "I totally fell asleep!!! Ah so sorry! I had to be up at 4:45.

    I responded with "You'll totally make it up to me!!! No worries."

    So she responds with "Lol have a great day"

    I'm puzzled. Any ideas? This seems like its gone cold.
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    Default Re: Was I brushed off by her?

    I've run into that type plenty of times.
    Usually after a few messages I can tell if they're gonna be like that & I'll just let it fizzle.

    Depending on the hotness factor of the girl, I might ramp up the attempt & go for something gutsy & take a shot that will either get her attention & start engaging more... or will shut it all down for good.

    Either way, don't worry about it. There are lots of girls out there.

    You're not gonna be successful with ALL of them. So, it shouldn't faze you when you run into one of these types.


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    Default Re: Was I brushed off by her?

    She's pretty hot. Like girl next door hot. Very cute and seems nice.

    Same. Not sure what I did. I used to keep women on their toes in online dating. After a summer hiatus, and overall game-improvement, I find I'm not doing as well as I should.

    I'm interested in this gutsy approach. Can you give an example? It could be anywhere between:

    "You were fun at first, when did you turn into a boring flake?"
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    "Let's skip the phone call. We'll just meet up and you can see how irresistible I am. "
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    Default Re: Was I brushed off by her?

    Stay away from the put-downs & things that sound like you're trying too hard to sell yourself.

    I'm talking about something a little more bold & with a slight shock potential.

    When they start flaking or dragging the progression of the interaction, I've used something like this a few times to see if I could spark something to kick it into gear, or cause her to cut out completely.

    "So, I'm going skinny dipping in a couple weeks & wanted to offer YOU the first chance to come along. You in or out?"

    I don't do it often, but it HAS gotten a few girls to start being more involved & interested in a more fun dialogue.
    And it's also offended a few girls.

    It's not vulgar, or overtly sexual... it's just something a bit out of the ordinary.


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    Default Re: Was I brushed off by her?

    She went cold. Wait a couple weeks and text her again. with that said, i wouldnt give a fuck about anyone girl dude. you should be running multiple girls at the same time not worrying about the outcome of any of them.
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    Default Re: Was I brushed off by her?

    Sometimes I just need to hear those words again. Thanks I am doing as you say, and I'm getting tail with girls I work with, but my emotional side prevails at times and makes me question my self worth and buries my confidence temporarily.

    I should consider therapy lol.
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