Hello and welcome to me (i hope )..
Here is my situation
A little background:
About 4 years ago i was a complete AFC.. Then i started experimenting with hitting on girls (little-bit PUA style) and it was starting to work for me.
Right then i got into a relationship which lasted until some days ago, but the last months weren't good for either of us. Another fact about me is that i am not really a facebook guy and most of my friends know that, including my ex and the girl i met.
So i met this girl a week ago(still technically in a relationship) and i kind of like her, also i think that there was some connection between us but i was a little consistent because cheating is completely out of my game.
We are both in college and at some point we talked about how both of us can't study during the day and we prefer to study during the night.
Immediately after we met she added me on facebook(she does that with everyone i think). It took some time for me to accept.
So today she updated her status about 2h ago about how she finds it hard to study(and sad face).
I believe that under different circumstances this is my chance to comment her status and if she replies to message her. My excuse for being on facebook today(which i don't normally do) will be that i am a little sick and i didn't attend my job which is also true.
If my ex or some mutual friend sees the comment she will be really hurt which i don't want because she is a really good girl and the break up was mutual, and also i don't want her to think that i broke up with her for the other girl(which i didn't) .
My second option is to directly message her and say something about the status but i think this will be considered sneaky by her since my profile stinks of guy-in-relationship. (now i have removed some evidence but still for her it could be me being sneaky).
My third option is to do nothing right now, wait for another chance, or to see her again since we have common friends.
I know i shouldn't think too much but the opener feels really important and after 3.5 years i feel a little rusty.
Also the moment might already be gone for me but figuring out what i should have done is important because i believe i will come to this situation again either with this girl or another.
Sorry for the huge message,
Have a nice day everyone.