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Thread: Okcupid, how to respond to "Hey there"

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    Default Re: Okcupid, how to respond to "Hey there"

    Decided to ask for the meetup. I replied with:

    "I also bet I can out run you in a race :P

    So I was thinking, we can keep messaging back and forth on this site for god knows how long, or we can schedule a meet up sometime when our schedules correlate. If you aren't comfortable giving out your phone number yet, maybe your Facebook account if you have one?"

    Let's see what happens. You do have a point ED, if she's genuinely interested me then she'll accept it. If not, then oh well.

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    Default Re: Okcupid, how to respond to "Hey there"

    Im curious, did she except your invite to meet up?

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    Default Re: Okcupid, how to respond to "Hey there"

    I was thinking during this when to move from the online site messages to another medium (skype, phone call, etc...)

    I know Sin suggests that in daygame 3 hours at a coffee shop is less significant than 1 hour in a coffee shop+1 hour in somewhere else+plus another hour somewhere else. He also makes it clear that you should ensure she can see where your taking her to next or else she won't go. Just wondering how this all applies to online game. It just makes sense

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    Default Re: Okcupid, how to respond to "Hey there"

    Quote Originally Posted by The_Mania View Post
    Here's the convo so far:

    Me: Hello! How are you? Nice to meet you. Name's Steve. What's yours?

    Btw, in one of your pictures, is that the Breckenridge Ski Resort? Looks remarkably similar.

    PS. I'm glad somebody seems to know the difference between "Your" and "You're." Haha.""

    Her: It is the Breckenridge Ski Resort!

    Her: I'm doing well, my name is Alexis or Lexie for short.

    Me: Wow, I guess I haven't lost my touch at guessing places!

    How was the experience over there? Never been to that resort, but have always wanted to go.

    Her: It is one of a kind.

    Me: I can only imagine.
    She initiated the convo,I would say let her work harder,don't bombard her with texts,I get the impression as if you're the one who has to hold the conversation,in a conversation both of you have to invest.

    Example :

    You: Hello! How are you? Nice to meet you.Name's Steve. What's yours?

    Her: I'm doing well, my name is Alexis or Lexie for short.

    You:So you like skiing huh ?Btw is that the Breckenridge Ski Resort? Looks remarkably similar.

    Her : It is the Breckenridge Ski Resort!

    As you see in this part,the conversation is turning into an interview,and it doesn't feel like she's investing at all,here I would stop asking question about the experience and stuff and would jump to flirting.

    You : So, I'm gonna take a guess & say; you just hang out there & pretend you just got off the slopes, but you really don't know how to snowboard. Am I right? Haha. :P

    I think you should make the girls invest more,what I currently see is you did an interview and now asking her to meet up,it mght work cuz she may be shy,but I would make the girls invest a bit more.

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    Default Re: Okcupid, how to respond to "Hey there"

    Great post. Do you guys know anything about Hot or Not?

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    Default Re: Okcupid, how to respond to "Hey there"

    Call her boring, unoriginal and relatively attractive then ask an open ended question.


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