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    Default Dating at work

    Does anyone have any thoughts on dating people at work? I want to get some advice before showing interest to a colleague.

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    Default Re: Dating at work

    uhhh yeah i do. Don't do it. You can get other women outside the work place. your just going to cause drama where there isn't any need to. personal opinion. I just don't do it.
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    Default Re: Dating at work

    Uhhh dating at work is risky. High risk for little reward. Literally if you're inner game isn't tight as F when sh1t hits the fan during a break up your going to cause alotta drama.

    Biggest element is building trust. I honestly would build a ton of rapport with a girl and screen for trust issues or if she's crazy in general and then decide from there. Even if you lacked building attraction now you at least have another girl friend to add to your social proof.
    But yes, I have and still would date a girl from work . But I do it because I like the challenge and as an ego thing.

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    Default Re: Dating at work

    Yeah I was kind of leaning away from the idea. It seems like a good place to practice though? I am not overly flirtatious with the girls at work, but it has helped my small skills I think by talking to cute girls at work, then using that confidence in cold approach.

    Thanks for the responses, I really appreciate the feedback

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    Default Re: Dating at work

    Yeah, it can be a good way to practice, but the major thing is your boss. Your boss is NOT going to like you flirting with your fellow co-workers. If you don't care about your job like I do, proceed on like normal.
    Also. DO NOT flirt with every single hot girl you work with. Don't be that guy. Pick one girl and stick with her. The rest you need to genuinely be just friends with. Just talking to hot girls will build your confidence and help your game so just be friends. Start off with Indirect Game, & go from there.
    You'll also start to realize those hot girls aren't really that hot once you get to know them and there crappy personalities.
    There's a lot more but I'm just going to stop there.

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    Default Re: Dating at work

    Pickup and the office do not coexist together well. Light flirting and small talk is alright in the office, but nothing more than that. No escalating, no relationships, no friends with benefits, NO NOTHING! Focus on making money and doing well at work, and then get the ladies outside of work.
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    Default Re: Dating at work

    I make the mistake of sleeping with the receptionist at a job when i was in mid-20s. NOT smart. Dont do it.

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    Default Re: Dating at work

    I would definitely advice against it especially if you folk are in the same office. If you are in different group sections on different floors within a big company it could work but in general, I would stay away.

    Every situation is different and you will need to use your wisdom and the advice shared with you.

    Wishing you all the best.

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    Default Re: Dating at work

    I guess it depends on your work environment, generally I would agree with the other posts though, not worth the trouble.

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    Default Re: Dating at work

    I'm agree, better not even to try it. Mix work and private life not good at all)


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