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    So I've been texting this girl and we've known each other for a while, don't really talk much but I asked her to hang and go see a movie, we set on a date about a week after and just 5 days before she texted:

    K about the movie I'm busy wednesday sorry is there another day you wanna go?


    Give me your thoughts, would you believe her?
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    Default Re: would you believe her?

    It seems like she's preoccupied and probably not totally interested. She asked "is there another day you want to go" as in it's only you wanting to go to the movie and not really her. Set another date and see how she acts and then you'll know for sure.
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    Default Re: would you believe her?

    She's trying to re-schedule so I don't see the big deal. Just re-schedule to a time that works for you. If she wasn't interested she wouldn't try to re-schedule she would just tell you she can't make it.
    So yes, she's interested.
    But, her interest level sounds low. Fix that.

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    Default Re: would you believe her?

    Kyl3 has it literally spot on.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: would you believe her?

    Agreed, take Kyl3's advice here. There is also a lot of truth I think in what flow said about the wording in her text. It's a safe bet that she isn't as interested as you are at the moment.. Sounds like she almost thinks she's doing you a favour by accompanying you to a movie. You need to try to reverse this.

    Just be really casual about it. Don't call her out. A simple "Yeah no biggie, what about like this-day or that-day? Work for you?" ..Follow it up with something light and funny after her answer. An hour later. End the light and funny text with "..Cool, that works for me."

    Know what I mean? The words don't have to be to the letter, the concept here is what's important.

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    Default Re: would you believe her?

    Okay guys thanks for the tip, I'll tell you how the day goes when it happens
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    Default Re: would you believe her?

    Okay guys, one last thing, tommorows wensday and I might be hanging with another girl, if I do should I try and dhv by sending her a snap on snapchat showing I don't have to just hangout with her?
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    Default Re: would you believe her?

    Send her a snapchat of you and this other girl? No. Absolutely not. Why would you do that?

    That would come off as extremely jealousy-seeking, and a huge dlv. Pre-selection only works if you aren't blatantly obviously throwing it in someones face, has to be non-chalant to actually work properly.

    Is she on your Facebook? If so you could upload a pic of you and this other girl onto your Facebook page.

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    Default Re: would you believe her?

    Oh I never meant directly sending one, just like as a story on snapchat if you know what I'm saying, would that work?
    I may be a starter but I like to help whatever ways I can

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    Default Re: would you believe her?

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    Oh I never meant directly sending one, just like as a story on snapchat if you know what I'm saying, would that work?
    DOn't do that. Relax. You are the PRIZE.


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