Just a quick brief on the situation:
Me and my ex girlfriend (we broke up about 17 months ago) are "in the process" of getting back together. She came back to me... Everything is great between us with the exception of one thing, our sex life.
We have been "Dating" over the last two weeks, have hooked up with each other alot but have yet to have sex. She says that she is incredibly attracted to me but she dosen't know what wrong. She dosen't have the sexual desire or passion to have sex with me. That is the ONLY thing that is holding us back from actually being together.
She is a commitment phobe and has confessed that.
We also have many mutual friends that like us alot together and are stunned that we haven't had sex yet. This pressure might be an attributing factor.
So my question is, how do i break down this barrier? How do i create this sexual Tension, this passion. I know it exists and may be dormant because it did exist when we first dated awhile back.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
I love sex and so does she. This is the one downfall in our relationship and it would be incredibly sad if it didn't work out for this one reason.
Yours truly, a struggling man.