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Thread: T-Mal's OKC results - First day

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    Exclamation T-Mal's OKC results - First day

    Hey fellas,
    Some of you are getting the hang of online dating & some of you are still bombing out.

    I've written several threads on the subject, including: initial contact messages, setting up a profile & what kind of pictures you need.

    Here are the most recent examples of messages I've gotten, but this time using OKC.

    These girls messaged ME first... Here's what they wrote:

    Ok you win love the pics.. you look like you would be a ton of fun!!



    I definitely appreciate a guy with no shirtless bathroom pic in their profile. Even better, no shirtless pic cuddling your cat or dog. Now that's super awkward. I mean, what are those guys really trying so say about their relationship with their pet? Hilldale is a little too far away from where I live, but I thought I'd say good morning & you have a funny/interesting profile. Good luck here on OKC!



    Hi. I was looking for a shirtless bathroom picture of you. I'll check back later.



    Hooray for the "no shirtless photo" man!



    Hi
    You seem like fun and I like to have fun. Also yay team Edward!! Love the beach too....so fortunate to be a stones throw from Lake MI!!
    Check out my profile and let's chat more!!
    Sara



    Love your profile! Definitely made me laugh, much more entertaining than the usual profile



    Hello. Love the profile, and appreciate the lack of shirtless pics. What's up with that, anyway?



    Love your profile, thank you for sharing! I'm guessing you will not be on this site long



    Cute profile. Ever make your way to Virginia?



    Hi
    I like your pictures and profile.



    Omg... your profile is hysterical! hahaha... thanks for the laughs.. But beyond that, you seem really cool too. And AAANNNDDDD you live just minutes away! Will miracles ever cease? I hope not.. :P



    OMG you were not lying you are a funny man or more like hilarious! I was really laughing while reading it. Very unique and awesome!
    Welcome to freezing cold Michigan!





    Then, I sent one....

    My initial message to this girl who "replies very selectively:" (Who was online at the time.)
    Heya Nerd-Ball,
    I dig the spunky / sassy attitude & the mention of EOS.
    What's your favorite scent/flavor of those? (I'm kinda partial to watermelon.)

    Also- I have to disagree with you about something.
    Knowledge isn't power... APPLICATION of knowledge is. ;o)~ heehee!

    Hope you're staying warm during this snowy winter we're having.


    Her Reply: (about 30 min later)
    Sorry it took me so long to get back with you, I was busy reading my future husbands profile! I have a smile that even plastic surgery can't remove right now!!!


    Again, all of these are from today.
    Yes there are a few from girls I'm not interested in, but there are some from girls I AM interested in.

    The thing is, when you differentiate yourself from all the other guys, you WILL get success. It's like Fishing with dynamite!

    If you compare MY message in the above example, to the list of crappy messages guys send from my thread here, you should have a better idea of what works & what doesn't.


    I just wanted to give you guys some encouragement & inspiration.
    Don't give up!
    Get CREATIVE!




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    Default Re: T-Mal's OKC results - First day

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Don't give up!
    Get CREATIVE!
    Amen to that brotha. Good creativity always wins in the end; can never tout that enough.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: T-Mal's OKC results - First day

    AAAAAANNNNNND....
    After a few messages exchanged with the girl who referred to me as her "future husband" Here's where we are...

    My last message to her: We may want to think about getting a blood test. There's a chance we could be brother / sister who were separated at birth.

    Her reply Lol you're funny. I laughed more today than i have in a long time. Thank you so much for that! Honestly if you feel comfortable exchanging #s let me know.
    Dawn


    When you FLIRT right from the very beginning, the girl will have fun! When she's having fun, she WANTS to exchange numbers. And if you do it right, she'll ask YOU about it.



    I went in direct right from the first message; BOOM! Call her a nerd, disagree with her, demonstrate I took the time to read her profile (which tells her I'm interested) and end with a quick pleasantry.

    Quit trying to pretend you're not hitting on the girl! Quit trying to act like you're not trying to pick her up. Quit acting like you're not interested...

    THAT'S why you're having little (if any) success, whether it's online or real life.

    You're too worried about "the opener" & what routine can you use, so the girl thinks you're just being nice & friendly.
    You're afraid to escalate, so you ask Job-interview style questions.

    You think you need to run the cube, or some other test, or do magic tricks, or whatever....
    No! Just flirt & be FUN!!
    THAT'S what girls are going to positively respond to.



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    Default Re: T-Mal's OKC results - First day

    I like to know how you manage to get women to reply in actual sentences, lol.

    I used a lot of your stuff when I made up my OkCupid profile in the past (no longer have it), and some wouldn't reply at all, while others would literally just post one or two words. My profile was also very good, and my pictures were above-average.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: T-Mal's OKC results - First day

    I actually point out in my profile that I'm a stickler for grammar & spelling.

    So, MOST of the time, girls put in a little more effort.

    I've gotten several more messages over the past hour & a couple were just "Hey there" & "Great profile".

    So, yeah, I'm getting some of those too.
    But when you set things up correctly, it's like you're putting your qualifiers out there & the girls will try to fit within those frames.

    I also have PLENTY of girls who don't reply to me either.
    But I know that's gonna be the case.
    Not an issue. That's life.

    But I do have my profile set up so that it's more appealing to & attracts a certain type of woman that I'm interested in; while weeding out lots of them that I'm NOT.



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    Default Re: T-Mal's OKC results - First day

    You got that many messages in one day? I get a few but that's a lot.. My profile is super tight, good pics and write-up etc. I'm curious what your write up looks like.

    I've had amazing success with POF since I signed up about 4 months ago. I've taught a couple friends how to use it and they are getting numbers etc now. They had previously given up.

    Here's a fun one from today with an 8.5, she actually seems pretty cool..


    (5 or 6 messages in..)

    Her: I know what my confession of the day is.. My roommate just texted me and told me she's not going to be home until monday.. So I will not be wearing pants until then.. Pants-off-Dance-off.

    Me: I like your style. Not wearing pants is actually one of my interests that I decided not to list.. I do it constantly. Habitually even.

    No pants-off-dance-off is complete though without later making pillow forts and having a movie marathon.

    Her: All I want to do right now is watch back-to-back-to-back Bruce Willis movies.

    Me: Die Hard 1 and 2 followed by The Fifth Element and/or Sin City perhaps?

    Her: Definitely Die Hards and Fifth Element.. Love them to death.. It's pure unconditional love, the kind of love that you can only read about in fairy tales and what not.

    Me: Words of true passion. Die Hard is just way too good. It's been awhile since I watched them as a matter of fact.

    We're gonna get along just fine, you and I.

    Her: I'm glad you like Die Hard.. That is a definite must.


    Flirt and have fun, but be interesting too. After you type out your next message, look it over before you hit send to see if there is a more fun and/or interesting way of saying it.


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