Re: Is it ok to slam a girl for being lame
Here, I can answer this one from personal experience: DON'T DO IT. I have called out girls on being unresponsive, and I have tried all sorts of different ways with different girls. Needless to say, none of it ever works, and sometimes it can even tick her off. Girls, and guys alike, don't like to get called out for not doing something that they have no obligation to do.
There's a way I like to approach these kind of girls, and that's what I call the Step Down approach to texting. It literally works by investing almost as much energy into a text message as the other person. If she sends you one worded messages, don't send her any back. If she responds to a message in an hour, respond back in an hour and a half.
Overall though, I would agree with Mortal. The main problem is you're "letting" this girl get a rise out of you because she is not investing anything at all into the conversation (and when I mean letting, I mean that you are creating this feeling yourself). You have GOT to move on from her, and don't think anything more of it. Sticks in the mud are no fun at all, and if you're not having fun while doing pickup, you're not doing it right!
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X