My "OK Cupid" inbox has been blowing up the past 2 days, since I posted my profile.
I've been getting messages of all kinds, from all sorts of girls.
That's not too surprising, since I had CRAZY successful results on Match POF as well.
But today I decided to start trying something a little different.
I decided to be pretty bold & more aggressive right from the start.
Here's a message I got from a girl who saw my profile & wrote to me first.
Your profile is the most original I've ever read, by far. You even got a smile out of me a few times, good job on that. A man who doesn't sound like a douche while having his shit together and has a great sense of humor, I'm not sure I believe it.
Just a smile? No laughs?
Dang! You're a tough audience!!
Glad you enjoyed the unique spin I put on it.
And no, I'm not a douchebag.
I can be an asshole occasionally, I'll admit that; but a douchebag I am not.
I sense you have a knack for sarcasm & being bluntly honest... even to the point of being called bitchy at times.
I'm guessing you're an absolute blast to hang with in real life...
Just imagine the mischief we could get into & the trouble we could cause. heehee!
Now THAT you got a laugh at. I love causing mischief!
So, that's how you get beyond the Fluff talk & avoid the friend zone.
Don't waste time asking them how their day is... or if they like school or their jobs... Don't agree with everything they say or try to impress them with "commonalities".
Girls want confidence! They want a man who is dominant & can cause an emotional reaction inside. (That's why girls talk about "butterflies" in their stomach... it's the emotional trigger.)
But you need to know how to calibrate the amount of cockiness you use, if you're going to go that route. You have to have a healthy dose of humor too. It's a combo that requires the perfect balance.
I'll update & post more results as I dig through these messages & have more interactions.