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Thread: T-Mal's BOLD messaging

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    Exclamation T-Mal's BOLD messaging

    My "OK Cupid" inbox has been blowing up the past 2 days, since I posted my profile.
    I've been getting messages of all kinds, from all sorts of girls.

    That's not too surprising, since I had CRAZY successful results on Match POF as well.

    But today I decided to start trying something a little different.
    I decided to be pretty bold & more aggressive right from the start.

    Here's a message I got from a girl who saw my profile & wrote to me first.

    She Wrote:
    Your profile is the most original I've ever read, by far. You even got a smile out of me a few times, good job on that. A man who doesn't sound like a douche while having his shit together and has a great sense of humor, I'm not sure I believe it.

    My Reply:
    Just a smile? No laughs?
    Dang! You're a tough audience!!
    Glad you enjoyed the unique spin I put on it.
    And no, I'm not a douchebag.
    I can be an asshole occasionally, I'll admit that; but a douchebag I am not.
    I sense you have a knack for sarcasm & being bluntly honest... even to the point of being called bitchy at times.
    NICE!!
    I'm guessing you're an absolute blast to hang with in real life...
    Just imagine the mischief we could get into & the trouble we could cause. heehee!


    Her Reply:
    Now THAT you got a laugh at. I love causing mischief!



    So, that's how you get beyond the Fluff talk & avoid the friend zone.
    Don't waste time asking them how their day is... or if they like school or their jobs... Don't agree with everything they say or try to impress them with "commonalities".

    Girls want confidence! They want a man who is dominant & can cause an emotional reaction inside. (That's why girls talk about "butterflies" in their stomach... it's the emotional trigger.)

    But you need to know how to calibrate the amount of cockiness you use, if you're going to go that route. You have to have a healthy dose of humor too. It's a combo that requires the perfect balance.

    I'll update & post more results as I dig through these messages & have more interactions.



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    Default Re: T-Mal's BOLD messaging

    Can you give examples on what you said in your profile?

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    Default Re: T-Mal's BOLD messaging

    It's really not about what I said... it's more of what I DIDN'T say.
    And wording it in such a way that it's entertaining & fun to read.

    Every guy doing online dating needs to take some time & anonymously browse other guys' profiles, so they can see how horrible & lame they are.

    A little hint is this:
    99% of the guys write that they're "laid back" & like to "hang out with friends"... or they're "just a regular, normal guy", or that they're "nice & know how to treat a lady.." etc.

    They talk about how they have a good job, like sports, hunting & camping... blah blah blah.

    Think of how many GIRLS all write the same thing when YOU are browsing profiles. It gets old, doesn't it...?
    It's the same principle.

    And your pictures need to convey the same fun, exciting vibe as your written section.
    If all you have are a bunch of "selfies" or pics from your webcam at home, you're gonna convey the message that you never get out of the house; or that you have no friends /no life.

    Then, when it comes time to message a girl, most guys do THAT wrong too. (I have a whole thread with endless examples of actual messages guys sent to my recon profile. You can read that here)

    I can't tell everyone where to find my profile online, but I know a few guys here have seen it.
    And those who have can attest to the fact that it's sooooooo different from anything else a girl will read.

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    Default Re: T-Mal's BOLD messaging

    Here's another little message exchange where I decided to be bolder than usual... but this time more sexual.

    I clearly made my intentions known... no doubt about it.
    Why? Because the girl dropped a hint & I caught it.




    After a few messages back & forth she wrote:
    Thank you for keeping me company tonight. Its been nice.
    Conversation doesnt always flow too easily for me with men on here. Most men on here are pretty stupid and ridiculous, just trying to get down my pants. And that shit gets real old, real fast.
    But you're not like that at all, and I appreciate it. Just so you know.



    My reply:
    Thank ya.
    The weather is also too crappy to go out, so I'm having a blast hangin here.

    And... I never said I didn't want to get in your pants...
    I'm just more patient & go about it with more class & tact.



    Her Response:
    LOL!! You sly criminal... I got your M.O. now, brotha. LOL


    So, there ya go.
    Girls won't get pissed & shut you out for going the sexual route.
    You just have to be fun & different in the way you get around to that subject.




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    Default Re: T-Mal's BOLD messaging

    Ok, say you make music, what's a way that YOU would word that to be interesting T-Mal?

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    Default Re: T-Mal's BOLD messaging

    It depends on the situation...

    Why am I talking about the music? Did a girl ask me about it? Did I mention making music in my profile?

    If she asks, "what kind of music do you make?" My reply is going to be fun, flirty & playful... something like:

    "I make the type of music that affects people to their cores.... and often times, also makes their clothes come off. That's the best! "

    If she's genuinely still interested in my music, then I would give her a more serious answer & describe it in more detail.
    But never offer too much information right off the bat.

    You want her to be curious... Curiosity = attraction.


    On a side note- MOST girls automatically find musicians interesting & attractive... so it's not gonna be very difficult to get her attention.


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    Default Re: T-Mal's BOLD messaging

    Lol man you are clever as hell

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    Default Re: T-Mal's BOLD messaging

    Want to write my text message responses for me T-Mal? JK, can you create a guide for sh!t testing though? I get a lot of that over texting and on FB. I have passed a couple but then I am the badass when I pass them and they lose interest so they hang up instead of hanging on.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: T-Mal's BOLD messaging

    Hey T-Mal,
    i am relatively new to dating online, not to picking up girls in real life, but just to selling me online. Having read so much about your mysterious "all-mighty" magnetic profil, i would love to take a look, as i am looking for some inspiration on how to make mine. Do you think that would be possible?

    Kind regards,
    Greg

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    Default Re: T-Mal's BOLD messaging

    Just receive two message from two females on POF from using this.


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