Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Page 3 of 6 FirstFirst 123456 LastLast
Results 21 to 30 of 56
Like Tree30Likes

Thread: drunk texting issue

  1. #21
    I.M.Mortal's Avatar
    I.M.Mortal is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 6,582, Level: 56
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 168
    Overall activity: 55.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered5000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Location
    Cali
    Posts
    450
    Points
    6,582
    Level
    56
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    293

    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    Nice opening hook.
    That was good that you got her attention with with the 15:07. Her reaction was funny.

    I would not have respond after she said "Or do I miss something!"

    As hard as it is to resist, don't answer her. Let her keep guessing.
    Always try to leave the conversation at the height of things. That way you stick in her mind. You don't always have to be the last guy responding.

    She said she will try, but it is possible that she will be at the beach. So don't keep your expectations high.

    She may or may not text you back. Don't worry. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't depending on how hectic their schedule is.
    If she doesn't, all you do is initiate another similar text another 5 days or so to set up another skype meeting.

    ...Except this time, IF she is busy, find out when she is not busy. Make it look like you have such a busy life and YOU ARE FITTING HER INTO YOUR SCHEDULE. This what happened when my girl rescheduled. I didn't let it bother me.

    ------------------------------------------------
    After 3 lines of texting...
    HER: Im afraid im going to have to reschedule. I’ll still be teaching at [X] tonight but I have to ready my aunt’s website by tonite. She is in full, Colombian panic mode. Can we do coffee another time?
    ME: Columbian panic mode hehe. No worries. If u need the time tonight, we can reschedule the private as well. The way it looks for me this week…Thursday is no good. My friday is booked.
    HER: We’ll find time. Thank you for understanding!!
    ME: Just make sure u don’t go into Columbian panic mode yourself lol. But since u r only half Columbian, I’m not too worried Take care of your aunt and c u at 8 at our regular scheduled programming.
    HER: Haha nice! See you then
    ----------------------------------------------------

    One way to look busy is tell her certain days that you are not available. Instead of you suggesting an alternate date, try to get her to suggest a different date. In his case, she didn't go for it, but...in the previous example she did. If she suggests a different day, then don't be overexcited and commit too soon. Say you "You should be free that day but can only do after a certain time."

  2. #22
    LAMEtext is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 198, Level: 3
    Level completed: 96%, Points required for next Level: 2
    Overall activity: 5.0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jan 2014
    Posts
    73
    Points
    198
    Level
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    15

    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    Hi, thanks for the quick reply!

    When I woke up she had send me a text (but only after like 7 hours, so she was probably almost going to bed. She texted:

    "Sorry I was super busy!! "

    So I'm planning to send the following text when she is on school (around 10AM), I don't want her to wake up with a text "waiting" on her. I'd like her to wait just a bit longer.

    "Hey, don't worry, there's nothing wrong with having fun! ;-) Today and Wednesday I'm fully booked, but I should be able to free up some time on Thursday. Oh and please, leave some sun for me... you're being greedy!"

    Is this good, or is it too long? Any feedback is more than welcome!

  3. #23
    lilsting's Avatar
    lilsting is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,343, Level: 41
    Level completed: 97%, Points required for next Level: 7
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience PointsSocial
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Location
    Sky above Chicago
    Posts
    520
    Points
    4,343
    Level
    41
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    207

    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    That's a solid response. Send that!

  4. #24
    lilsting's Avatar
    lilsting is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,343, Level: 41
    Level completed: 97%, Points required for next Level: 7
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience PointsSocial
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Location
    Sky above Chicago
    Posts
    520
    Points
    4,343
    Level
    41
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    207

    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    By the way, I never got back to you because ever since I posted, this thread has been full of win! In your desperate times of need, if no one is there to help, Lilsting will answer the call!

  5. #25
    LAMEtext is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 198, Level: 3
    Level completed: 96%, Points required for next Level: 2
    Overall activity: 5.0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jan 2014
    Posts
    73
    Points
    198
    Level
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    15

    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    thanks for the offer!

    Is this text better than the previous one?

    ME: "Hey no worries, the life of celebrity may not be underestimated! Today and Wednesday I'm fully booked, but I should be able to free up some time on Thursday. In the meanwhile you can send some sun to Prague… you’re way too greedy!"


    IMO it's a lot better, even though the difference is very small?

  6. #26
    I.M.Mortal's Avatar
    I.M.Mortal is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 6,582, Level: 56
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 168
    Overall activity: 55.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered5000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Location
    Cali
    Posts
    450
    Points
    6,582
    Level
    56
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    293

    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    See, she did respond and she was busy.

    Very nice. It looks good. Send the first one. You're getting the hang of it. Almost guarantee she will respond to that. See if she takes the bait and suggests a day. IF she doesn't, be the first to end the whole conversation. It ran it's course.

    The second one, "the life of a celebrity"...don't put her on a pedestal or imply she is anything greater than she is. That takes value away from yourself. Remember, you are trying to make yourself look like the prize, not her. Just something that small can make a difference.

    Then re-initiate 5 days later.

    BTW - The Skype session...is it with camera? The reason why I ask is because your game is going to have to be good and congruent to your texting. It's the closest thing to being in-person. If you have doubts with your game. I wouldn't be too eager to rush and set a Skype date. You should have a plan to implement some PUA tactics while staying true to being the best of yourself.

    The reason why I give you a heads up is because of this: I have a lady friend who met a guy through some kind of chatroom. She went on 2 to 3 dates with him and wasn't impress. Her words was that the guy she interacted in chat and the guy in person just wasn't the same. He was boring and meh in person. So it just goes to show you, that if you can charm a girl by words in a text, but can't make her stick in real life, it's all for naught.

  7. #27
    LAMEtext is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 198, Level: 3
    Level completed: 96%, Points required for next Level: 2
    Overall activity: 5.0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jan 2014
    Posts
    73
    Points
    198
    Level
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    15

    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    Thanks for pointing out the huge difference between both texts, it makes so much sense now.

    It is indeed skype via video, and I'm pretty sure my game is not good enough. Good point.

    1) any information how I can improve my game on skype?
    2) I have some really fun stories to tell, (so I won't look boring), but I'm pretty confident I will not do anything flirty.
    3) should I cancel the skype invitation, and in the meanwhile focus on increasing my skills and try to stay on her radar?

    in the meanwhile, I'll think about a skype-less text.

  8. #28
    I.M.Mortal's Avatar
    I.M.Mortal is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 6,582, Level: 56
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 168
    Overall activity: 55.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered5000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Location
    Cali
    Posts
    450
    Points
    6,582
    Level
    56
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    293

    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    Answers in line...

    1. That is a whole new can of worms too long to post and what this forum is all about. Developing confidence and a cool identity is not something that can be done overnite.
    2. Fun stories are good. Do it. However, you need to work on being flirty. It's a make it or break it. Start with reading this book "How to Meet and Connect With Women" by Robert Elise. You can find it free online. It will help you plan.
    3. You don't have to cancel. You just don't have to rush. Just casually throw the invitation up occasionally with playful persistence. IF she commits and can meet you, you win. If she can't meet you, no big deal, you still win because now you have more time to work on your game. Win-Win situation.

  9. #29
    LAMEtext is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 198, Level: 3
    Level completed: 96%, Points required for next Level: 2
    Overall activity: 5.0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jan 2014
    Posts
    73
    Points
    198
    Level
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    15

    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    thanks man, so much valuable information!

    You have no idea how much you guys are helping me ! THANK YOU

  10. #30
    LAMEtext is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 198, Level: 3
    Level completed: 96%, Points required for next Level: 2
    Overall activity: 5.0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jan 2014
    Posts
    73
    Points
    198
    Level
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    15

    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    Update:

    so I send the first text.

    Within 5 minutes she texted me this:

    SHE "hahahh"
    SHE: "I'll try thursday after school!!"
    SHE: "But I can not promise anything because after the classes there's always something to do "
    SHE: "So then I quickly go home and already leave again!!"

    1 hour later I texted her this:

    ME: "Let's play it differently: you keep me updated on when you have free time and then I have the honour to cancel the date! "

    1 hour later she replied:

    SHE: "Haha ok!! I let you know when I got time "

    Analysis:

    It seems like she's extremely busy, and right now, I'm not interesting enough (yet!) to clear her schedule. But she does text me back, so there must be some kind of interest from her side.

    After my second text I'm pretty sure in 95% of the cases she will NOT have time to meet up. But now I don't have to text her again to check if she's going to be available.

    Also, in the meanwhile I have enough time to prepare for my game (skype). If she does has time to skype, I am in good conditions. If she's not, I simply can train my skills.

    Today I will not be texting her, and my plan is to send her a text on Thursday which will be really funny, and without asking anything about her schedule / free time / skype.

    On her last text I have NOT replied, because I felt the conversation ended right there, and she had send the last text... so no reason to text her back.

    Sidenote:

    Last night was the first time we checked some Prague nightlife, and I think I approached like 7-8 girls, without any expectations and without any results. (so yeah, my game can use a lot of improvement!!), but my main goal was to start enjoying talking to girls (without the usual stress).

    Questions:

    1. Was the second text of good quality?
    2. Where could I have improved, how do you reply on a text like hers?
    3. Could I simply not text back on her first text?
    4. What should be the short term goal now?


Page 3 of 6 FirstFirst 123456 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. I Was A Drunk Ass
    By Jstrong in forum General Questions
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 11-07-2013, 11:58 AM
  2. First nclose but drunk
    By Juetas in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 9
    Last Thread: 03-03-2013, 03:18 AM
  3. Bahahahah drunk and here it goes
    By ridemyr1 in forum How To Get Your Ex Back
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 10-14-2012, 11:00 PM
  4. being drunk
    By jellymint43 in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 10
    Last Thread: 04-22-2011, 08:59 PM
  5. She's drunk-texting me
    By lez999 in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 8
    Last Thread: 12-10-2009, 12:28 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com