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    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    Haha! See, was I right or was I right? Again.

    No comment really. It feels like you are getting the hang of it.

    Your plan is sound.

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    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    You're a genius, no more no less.

    Really starting to enjoy texting, I find it so fun to text a random story to a girl (no question or anything), and receive a huge text back.

    If I look back at my boring/interview-type texts I used to send, I totally get why they lost interest. I got bored reading them too.

    Will keep this topic updated, because I want to keep improving my game!

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    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    status update:

    She never texted anything else, besides the "haha".
    This is somehow a real bummer, because I thought she would.

    Though, I know she's overly busy right now (with her mom visiting LA). I also saw on her facebook that she told a friend she's sorry that she still hasn't replied to her email, because she has no spare time.

    So right now, I think texting her (while her mom is still there), will not achieve much?

    What do you guys think, should I text her?

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    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    Here's what I think. Keep in mind my game is horrible (I just joined and this is my first post), but I am very observant. I'm also a realist and blunt, which I think is what you'll appreciate.

    I read all of what happened and here's my take on the whole thing, from start to finish:

    1. You met this girl, and something about you sparked interest in her, enough that she tracked you down. This is *likely* romantic interest, but not necessarily so.

    2. You made some serious (you even admit) early mistakes while trying to woo her, which she sort of glossed over, it appears. However slowly you can see a trend of disinterest growing.

    3. You changed your style and she got confused for a second, then warmed up a bit more as you sort of made the suggestions here your own. You got the practice in and it started to feel natural again, she responded quite well. Keep in mind that she responded *negatively* every. single. time. you were using someone else's words.

    4. That end text (from a month or so ago) she was very clearly offended, and completely confused why you would respond like that, you probably felt "off" about sending it but you had some idiot friend who was like "do it man, I do it all the time!" She was confused because you *wouldn't* respond like that, and that is what she *liked* about you. Once it came out she was instantly done. You can't really confuse "w/e bye."

    5. You did make up for it later, she seems to be in a good place as far as you're concerned, but you still farked up major.

    Keep in mind this whole exchange happened over a period of *months!* Where you are separated by a farking ocean. Any girl worth anything might initially have this fantasy of their European dreamboat visiting them, but eventually the fantasy fades, which is what I think has happened. No matter how good your game is, the situation just sucked.

    What I do know about girls is: Unless they're trashy, they're not going to SEEK YOU OUT if all they're looking for is a hookup. She either wanted a cool European friend, or a cool European boyfriend. So the idea of "sex while you're in town" is probably not at all appealing to her.

    The Takeaway: Look at this as an intense training ground where you had real interaction with a HB9 (or 10 or 17 or whatever, haha), and came away a much more confident guy in the realm of texting. Your texting game has far surpassed your other areas, and you no longer need to worry about it. Keep her on a backburner now, but start looking for girls elsewhere. Trust me, she might be hot, but she's not worth "waiting" for two years or more, haha.

    Also, in regards to "what should I do." It's like your looking for an excuse to hold on to this girl and you want the community to validate it. <---ill advised in the dating game, and ill-advised in general as a characteristic of yourself if you want to improve your game. It sounds harsh but dammit man, make your own decisions!

    I think you know what to do, you're just used to people telling you to do things, and you get some sort of comfort from it (I used to be like that too), again something to get over. The apparent smart choice in my mind (though, again, I'm a noob) is don't text her anytime soon. As in weeks. Go out, get REAL experiences that INCREASE your *real* and not just your *perceived* self-confidence. FORGET about her. Then, when the time feels right (and it may never "feel right," which is an indicator in and of itself) drop a feeler text again. See what happens.

    Hope it helped, if any advice is AFC advice, those with more experience feel free to correct it.

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    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    .....oh god, imagine I am this Aboriginal archer trying to hunt a deer from a long distance. Every time I fire an arrow it feels like it's ineffective, something is not done right. Then I see YOU passing by with a rifle... and all I can think of is: Good job, sir...you win.


    Such a wake up call, I've been telling my closer friends about this girl, and they often ask "how's it going?".
    During the first weeks I was like "GREAT! It's going to be epic!".
    Few weeks later the general reply was "It's okay, I'm taking my time, I'll get there! ;-)".
    Nowadays I'm telling "It's been fun. We'll see in June, no longer my #1."

    What I indeed should do is reflect back at this great learning experience, together with all the feedback I received from this thread: I am now truely enjoying texting. Every girl I meet from now on will receive good texts (or at least better ones!), and it's all because of this LA-chick! & you guys!

    I'd like to thank everyone for their replies & time to help me through this transformation process. I'll put her lower on my radar, and I'll check somewhere in april/may if I can get a second chance. Afterall, she will be coming back to Europe in June... and I'd love to have some fun with her then!! ;-)

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    Default Re: drunk texting issue

    Alpha males NEVER Drunk Text ...... If you are drunk , put down the phone and go sleep it off before you embarrass yourself


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