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    Default Third Date

    Hi all looking for some advice on a spot I find myself in:

    Meet a girl go out with her 3 weeks later.

    Date 1: Drinks then table tennis at my place. Goes well hook up organize a date 2

    Date 2: Goes well again, pizza on the beach chatting etc. Escalate a bit further but not all the way, she pushes me back. We plan a date 3 for the coming Monday.

    Date 2 was on Tuesday I text on Thursday just a joking text, no reply. I want to move the 3rd date to Sunday so text again today (Sat) get a reply basically saying 'I would be keen to do something but I think it would be better if we hung out just as friends. Thought it would be better to tell you rather than leading you on.'

    From the 2nd date I thought she was really into me now now sure what I should do in terms of texting her and planning the next meet up.

    Thanks in advance for any help.

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    Default Re: Third Date

    First, we need to know what lead to the LJBF text in the first place. Try to remember some key events of the first 2 dates and relay to us some things that could have send a wrong message, portrayed you as non-alpha, or anything else that may have went wrong.

    Only once we know the cause can we find the solution.

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    Default Re: Third Date

    I honestly can't think of any apart from she got the wrong ice cream order and we didn't go back although I tried to make her. Also we had pizza on the beach which was windy but it was her idea to go there rather than mine

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    Default Re: Third Date

    I would say it may just be a shit test, but honestly, it seems a little oddly placed.

    If you could post the string of texts from Thursday to Saturday between the two of you, that might help a great deal in determining what may have gone wrong here.

    You say you tried to escalate on the beach but she pushed you away.. Any ideas as to what may have gone wrong? Anything you can provide us with as far as what happened on the 2nd date will help in determining her reasoning for her seemingly putting you in the Friendzone.

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    Also. Where did you meet her and why did it take 3 weeks for the 1st date to happen?

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    Default Re: Third Date

    Meet her in town took 3 weeks because it was over Christmas And we were both busy.

    I broke a glass at the end of the date and drive her home.

    The texts don't really matter one is a joke about the pizza being eaten by my flat mates and the other is about mosquitos and trying to use my hands on her legs to keep them away


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