My girlfriend of over two years says she needs time to figure out if she still wants to be in a relationship with me. The past two weeks have been rocky and I've suggested that a lot of the negative energy is the reason for her feeling this way, Since she says that I haven't been doing anything wrong, I have been a little AFC(clingy,needy,etc ). She claims she doesn't know why she feels this way. She said to me she wants things to be like how they used to be, exciting, genuinely happy. She said she doesn't really feel excited anymore and she is unsure of what she wants. I suggested I take time away and give her space but she was very sure she didn't want space but to be with me and spend time with me. She said she just needed time to figure it out.
I don't understand what to do? She doesn't want space but needs time. How do I approach this? She said she really loves me and I'm her best friend. She said she doesn't care about anyone like she does the way she cares for me. She says this is something but I could be right about the negative energy going on causing this. The two weeks have been rough and I think it's causing this. She said it could maybe be that, but she wants to be sure. I have no clue on what to do.
Can anyone help please?
It's a pretty tough situation she wants to still hangout so I don't know how I would do NC.. Especially since we are still dating and she's going on and on about how she really loves me and wants me in her life. She said she needs to figure it out on her own and I just replied "I know you do." She'll be over in the morning to stay at my place for the day, no idea what to do..
Anyone any tips?