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    Default response duration

    Just a few very short questions:

    1. "How important is it to wait until you reply?"

    Just curious what the effect is of replying to fast, too late, etc...

    2. "If she only texts you back after 1 hour, when would you reply?"

    For me it depends, if it's a really FUN conversation, I tend to reply quicker. If the emotion is lacking, I tend to reply slower.

    3. "How long may your texts be?"

    Sometimes I have really funny things to say, but it feels like my texts are getting too long! does it actually matter? I mean, as long as the content is good, it seems fine for me?


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    Default Re: response duration

    The easiest answer is: (and I'm sure you'd like the easiest technique )

    Mix it up!

    Don't be predictable.
    Don't always wait to respond.
    Don't always respond right away.
    Don't be afraid to text first.

    ALWAYS be confident.
    ALWAYS be interesting.
    ALWAYS stand out from every other guy.
    ALWAYS make her have fun when she reads your texts.




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    Default Re: response duration

    Quote Originally Posted by LAMEtext View Post
    1. "How important is it to wait until you reply?"
    It isn't a matter of doing it once, it's a matter of doing it consistently. If you are constantly texting her moments after she texts you, you're going to come off as too needy, and she's going to become annoyed. If you take too long to text, you're never going to be able to build up attraction, and she may just lose interest all together. You have to alternate between the two to be successful.

    Quote Originally Posted by LAMEtext View Post
    2. "If she only texts you back after 1 hour, when would you reply?"
    Your reply rate is just about how I go with it as well. It's definitely alright to respond after 1 hour. You're probably busy with a lot of priorities on your plate. She has no idea, so you have no worries.

    Quote Originally Posted by LAMEtext View Post
    3. "How long may your texts be?"
    I like sending moderately lengthened messages. They're short enough to keep interest, but long enough to deliver the point. When I'm starting fresh with a girl, I'll usually try to keep the texts within the realm of light banter. If I'm sending marathon messages, there's a problem.

    Another way to go about with it is to send messages that are a step down from her's. If she sends you a long message, send one that is slightly shorter. I find that when you measure how much you send, you generally do a lot better with the content of the text.
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    Default Re: response duration

    Always have a clear goal in mind.you should be pushing for the meetup whilst amping attraction.when a girl seems pretty engaged she may text faster or not.gauge by her length of responses.frankly you should put girls in groups and mass text them.never be attached to an outcome.

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    Default Re: response duration

    Thanks for the feedback, tips & tricks guys!

    Definitely makes sense going to implement it asap!


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