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Thread: Online Pick Up

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    Default Online Pick Up

    I thought there was a forum up at one point on here dedicated to this but maybe I'm wrong. I would like to start a thread here where we could get some advice or maybe some examples on how to make a great plentyoffish profile or how to go about adding girls on facebook you dont know yet without it seeming creepy. For example..usually people accept friend requests but a message on facebook is just weird as is posting on someone wall you havent met. I find it an awkward angle to work in college but maybe thats just me.

    As far as the plentyoffish profile etc, i just made a temp profile to check out the girls around me and i happened to find one HB10(easily and i have high standards) that goes to my school. It motivated me to suck it up and really try to make myself a good profile.

    Any advice on either of these areas would be great, especially from the few women on here I would like to know what makes the guys stand out on these.

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    Am not familiar with plentyoffish but generally, you will stand out online if:

    1) your avatar or profile picture is a good looking or cute pic of you. And please, enough with pictures showing you taking the pic using your phone. I think real action pics are better because it suggests you have a life, and you have friends who actually like taking pictures of you. So choose a pic of yourself in action, outdoors, at a bar, pretending to be a mummy, making faces, etc. You can easily show off your broad shoulders, strong arms, tan, etc with a pic of you outdoors without coming off as seductive/too sexual. Think about it, a topless shot of you in front of your bathroom mirror reeks of TTH (trying too hard) but a similar shot outside, with maybe a basketball ring or the beach as background is cool and okay (and you need not write that you like the beach anymore). You can't just smile towards the cam, you have to have something going on around you to smile about. Oooh, I know am ranting about it but there are just some profiles that... arrgh.

    2) Include interests and passions without going on lengthy discussions as to why

    3) If you're not poetic enough, include a favorite quote that encapsulates your vision, dream, mood, etc.

    4) KISS. Keep it short and sweet.

    5) Be funny, without being weird or cryptic. If a woman goes, "Huh" while checking your profile out, you've lost her.

    6) Make sure your profile shows you're having fun and you have a life. I mean, don't say you're online 24/7 and don't really have friends etc. The only girls you'll attract that way are needy, scary girls as well. i hope you don't want that.

    7) tell a short, funny story instead of going on about what you like. But the story has got to imply things you find relevant

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    What do you think a good first message is? I know you shouldn't start qualifying yourself but instead asking her a question that would be different than most guys is a better strategy.

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    ragr Guest

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    Plentyoffish sucks man..don't waste your time on it..just tell the girl that goes to your school that she looks familiar and start from there..and then you tell her you saw her on plentyoffish

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    Maybe you could also experiment with the profile thing. Be super romantic and serious one month, a punk jerk the next, a raving lunatic the next, etc. I mean, if you're able to pick women up some other way, this could be a cool way to get out of your comfort zone, invoke machismo or what-not. Hehe.

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    Default Re: Online Pick Up

    That was my intention. Its easy to talk over the internet and will help me get more comfortable talking to multiple girls etc. Who knows maybe i will meet someone interesting. I just need good hook openers because there arnt many in my area that i would bother talking to so i need the ones i do message to respond.
    Last edited by InTheMaking; 01-07-2010 at 03:25 AM.

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    culturedpearls Guest

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    Use their profile to get them talking instead of using canned openers. Ask them something specific, like, "Hey, you said you like travelling. Which places have you gone to? I'm from Chicago, have you ever been?" or "Is that a real tattoo? Nice. I have been sitting on the fence about getting one..." etc


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