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    Default Giving Phone number out to her

    Is it bad to give my phone number to her to soon on the online dating? I have asked woman before for theirs and
    sometimes they didn't call. That was years ago
    Others I met in person and they wanted to take to bed right away.
    Now I know the online dating scene has changed quite alot since then

    I'm not into playing games or being an email person.

    I said to her " Hey Sunshine Here is my phone number ----------
    OK now call it so I have yours.

    I am new to this online dating I am 58 years old.

    Any help would be appreciated
    Thanks

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    Default Re: Giving Phone number out to her

    Never just give her your number.
    You'd be surprised how many guys do that.

    If she doesn't have to invest anything or work for it, it's not going to have any value to her.

    AND... It looks needy & desperate.

    I always wait until I've flirted & bantered with her so that the attraction is there.
    THEN I'll tell her we should swap digits. (If she hasn't already given me HER number, or asked about exchanging them.)

    But yeah, giving her YOUR number right off the bat is a turn-off for women.


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    Default Re: Giving Phone number out to her

    WOW I messed up big time then

    I thought it would show here authority, and not afraid

    I guess I will probably never hear from her and probably hurt my chances to even to
    get to know her lol OH well We learn by our mistakes

    Just like sales Some will, some won't next

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    Default Re: Giving Phone number out to her

    Another little tip-
    If SHE suggests you swap numbers, don't immediately give her yours then either.

    Be playful & drag it out a few more messages (or minutes if it's in person).

    Things like: "Hmmm, I guess you don't come off as a stalker... I suppose it might be OK. "

    or

    "I'm not entirely opposed to that idea. But before you can give me your number, you have to tell me your favorite junk food."

    or

    "Ya know, That's a pretty good idea. I just didn't want to bring it up because I wasn't sure if you were savvy enough to use a phone. "


    Just little playful games like that, to add suspense & fun will work magic overall when it comes to building attraction.



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    Default Re: Giving Phone number out to her

    Man you are a pro

    How you came up with all this stuff WOW

    Like I said I'm new to this now

    Thanks for all your help and advice my friend

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    Default Re: Giving Phone number out to her

    I always hung out with the girls growing up.

    Like from middle school on, whenever there was a party or get-together of some sort, I would hang with the chicks, while the guys were all being tools. ;o)

    So, I learned how to shuck & jive with them... They told me all the crap their boyfriends did that pissed them off, turned them off, irritated them, turned them ON, made them laugh... etc.

    So the whole "flirty" nature just developed.

    But also, the girls I hung out with were all bratty, sarcastic, spunky/sassy ones. So that's the type I'm most familiar with.

    They're always the ones who are more fun anyway.



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    Default Re: Giving Phone number out to her

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    The phone number I gave out was for my cell to text
    not my home phone Heading to Florida for the 500
    and thought her and i could text each other

    Here is what I emailed her

    Hey Cupcake
    No you arn't that lucky yet. LOL Heading to Florida for the 500
    Can't wait to see our driver friends Get out of this white stuff
    That number I flipped your way was for texting So will be out of
    here until nw

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    Default Re: Giving Phone number out to her

    T-Mal always has solid advice. You rock man.

    I just wanted to chime in with something that has worked pretty well for me with getting numbers. When I'm messaging with a woman and building rapport and I think she's into me and we're getting along well, I'll go ahead and suggest a meetup before even talking about exchanging numbers.

    I just make it a simple thing. I might say "Hey Liz, I'm having a lot of fun chatting with you and I think we might get along well. Let's grab a bite sometime. What's your upcoming schedule look like?"

    All but a couple times that I've suggested a meetup and the girl has been into me, she comes back with when she's free and her number.


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