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    Default Question about Pick Up on FB

    Okay so this is not totally pick up related, I am not actively into anyone ATM on any online site. Just a longing for more understanding. Okay so there was this girl one day on FB. An 8 but added her anyway (to increase my value not to get at her) but we had a falling out.

    So we were friends for a while on there and talked quite a bit over a long period (about 6 months) and as I mentioned I didn't like her so I never N-closed or made a move. She took things the wrong way and got all up in my face about me calling her baby. She posts on her wall about it all acting tough but I sensed there was sexual Tension between us so she probably did it to spite me and hide her feelings. She pulled a stunt like this last Summer but that's besides the point.

    In the end I got mad at her and deleted her. I knew this would piss her off. And it did. She starts posting how she wants to move back to Vegas (never came up when I was around but after I leave?!) then starts talking about some alpha guy (again I think she was thinking about me). Got on today and she deleted her FB account (see the progressive downward spiral after I left?).

    This leaves me feeling confused as she had tons of guys after her but my impact to her life was so devastating that she just lost it and gave up entirely. This makes me feel really special but at the same time like crap that I can affect girls like this. So why did this happen and why did she so strongly deny her feelings for me all the while give up on FB the minute I am gone?

    My question is why? We never met and she acted like she was completely annoyed by me until well she showed serious signs of a lack of recovery when I was gone. Why if there are other guys out there hitting you up on your wall everyday? Why me? Why get hung up on me? If I asked her she would deny it but she was happy as a cucumber when I am around and starts evaluating life and saying everything sucks when I am gone. So she couldn't stay on FB cuz deep down she still couldn't bounce back or something? My thing is if I was still around I doubt she would have left or been so negative saying she would move cuz I would be able to tell her not to.
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    Default Re: Question about Pick Up on FB

    Did you check to see that she didn't just block you on Facebook?

    To me, this girl just sounds like a basket case of batsh*t crazy. She liked you, and when you didn't like her back she just lost it. There's lots of girls like that out in the world, and I've had my fair share. If she ever tries to contact you back again, don't... just don't.
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    Default Re: Question about Pick Up on FB

    Yeah NM she blocked me but 2 months later. Blocking sometimes you can or cannot see their photo so confusing. Blocked by someone I deleted now that's funny.
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