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Thread: Texting a girl from online

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    Default Texting a girl from online

    Hey guys,
    I'm a total newbie to this site, and I had the following question:
    Over the past few days I've been talking to this girl online, and got her phone number. I proceeded to text her a little bit, and then asked if she'd get a drink with me. She responded just by saying "I'll be at xxx bar for my best friends birthday on that night." I don't know how to really take this. Should I follow up and ask her out for a different night?

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    Default Re: Texting a girl from online

    So did she tell you the exact bar that she will be at?

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    Default Re: Texting a girl from online

    Yeah, she did. Do you think she was inviting me to go with her?

    Anyway, I already texted her to see if a another day worked for her, and she said that she's busy over the weekend too. I don't know if I still have a shot or not, but I'd like to get the texting back to lighthearted, not constantly asking her what days she's available. any tips?

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    Default Re: Texting a girl from online

    Dude that was an invite... She didn't say no, but she didn't say yes either. She's basically saying, "I'll be at XXX bar that night. Why don't you come join me for a drink." That's how I'd take it at least. However, she will be there for her friends birthday which means that most of her attention will be focussed on the birthday girl.
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    Default Re: Texting a girl from online

    Quote Originally Posted by Iamtheflow View Post
    Dude that was an invite... She didn't say no, but she didn't say yes either. She's basically saying, "I'll be at XXX bar that night. Why don't you come join me for a drink." That's how I'd take it at least. However, she will be there for her friends birthday which means that most of her attention will be focussed on the birthday girl.
    I was thinking the exact same thing. It was totally an invite. If she really didn't want you to be around, she wouldn't have said what bar she was going to be at, she would have said, I will be with friends for a party.

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    Default Re: Texting a girl from online

    crap...You guys are probably right. what do you guys suggest my next move be? Is it possible for me to get back to going with her to her friends bday thing, or would it be best to suggest sometime next week?

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    Default Re: Texting a girl from online

    If she continues to give you IOIs then you should tell her that you've changed your mind and that you'll stop by for a drink. But if she just leaves it alone then you should leave it as well. Showing up to a bar that a woman told you she'll be at after you said you won't be coming is major dhv because it shows you're indecisive and that the only you have going are the plans that you've already cancelled on. Please don't surprise her at the bar either. Her friends will think it's really creepy and I highly doubt you'll be able to win them over after that.
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    Default Re: Texting a girl from online

    I agree with everyone, it's an invite. But if it were me, since she has her own group of friends I'd go with my own friends too. Show your friends a good time and introduce them to her friends and they can act as your wings by keeping her friends busy while you talk to her. And engage everyone there, not just her. Like talk to her friends, the birthday girl, and other random chicks too. You want to be the type of guy that if you're there, everyone will be having fun.


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