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    robthebob is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How fast from text to meet up

    Hi guys I'm new here. Been trying some online pick ups and I exchanged about 5 messages on pof with a girl then gave my number. Last thing I mentioned on pof was the location of where I work. Her first text to me just says "I work near *** as well X"

    My text game is pretty weak so my question is do I need to try and flirt a bit more by text or should I take this as a hint and go straight to suggesting a meet up after work?

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    Default Re: How fast from text to meet up

    The best option would be to build comfort and flirt first before going for the meet up. That way she will be comfortable and have trust in you when you do meet up with her.
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    Default Re: How fast from text to meet up

    In the end, no matter what you do now, or how much attraction and comfort etc you build before the meet up, you will need to build up the same amount of all those things before this girl will like/trust you enough to be in a relationship with/sleep with you.. Or whatever your end goal with her is.

    So the question is: Is your text game good enough to build up the connection better than it already is? Or, are you better off just trying to set up a meet, and putting in a little more effort in person than you'd have to had you covered more ground before the meet up?

    Keep in mind that with most girls, in order for them to meet someone in person they'll need to feel comfortable and attracted to a certain degree. Suggesting a meetup without enough of those things could potentially blow you out of the water. She texted you after you left her your number, so that is a good sign.

    Good luck to ya.

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    Default Re: How fast from text to meet up

    Remember whether a girl wants to meet up is also down to your looks/style. Take her texting you as a good sign. Flirt a little via text and wait for a good opportunity to ask her out when she is happy or sending back smiley or laughing emoticons. You can pre-condition her for a date too by talking about certain things for example drinks or food or stories: 'Tonight I had some long island teas with my buddies - so good, but so dangerous!'...if she says 'I like Long island teas too!' then you can say 'well, we gotta go and try these ones at XXXXX!!'. Or 'I have an interesting story about that...' her 'what is it?'...you 'Oh much too hard to describe via text..better to tell you in person...'.

    There's no golden rules for how fast it takes from text to meeting. It depends on the girl. Ive had some girls ask me for dinner as their opening message and others that take a while to crack.

    Just try and make your texts lead somewhere interesting and towards her being curious to meet up.

    If you work near her you could also try a casual lunch date. I sometimes take advantage of lunch dates for a few reasons:
    1 - It's a quick cheap date ...if I don't like the girl I can easily escape 'Ok I gotta get back to work, nice to meet you'
    2 - It's harder for a girl to flake and easier to commit to for the same reasons as 1
    3 - She has met you in person and if she agrees to see you again you know there is attraction, so next time on a proper date you can likely go full bore into Kino/kiss/fark territory.


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