since you've all been so helpful, I think it only fair to give you an update with my situation:
So on Thursday we had a chat on fb. The first 30 min it was just normal chat, some joking, after that I've decided to go for the number, because wanted to see, if there could be something more. I didn't want to ask for the meeting cause I don't want to arrange any meetings with a girl that is more than 2 days away.
So I've said: "Hey, would you give me your number, so I could talk to you besides online?" (a ruff translation from my language, but still pretty accurate)...
Then the silence comes.. she says: "hmmm..."... Two minutes passed and still no response. I've asked if she's still there, she said: "I am, just a sec, brb." Two minutes later she says: "I don't know whether to give you my number, I'm so confused, if I tell you sincerely..."
Then I've decided to be also opened about it and tell her what I think: "Well, you seem like a fun person and I'd like to know you better, and I don't want to stay just at fb chatting."
I said: "You can tell me, I'm a big boy, I can handle it", she replies: "I really don't know, omg I'm sorry I'm making such a big deal out of it, I know I'm rude. You do seem like a fun guy to talk to, but I'm totally confused right now."
Then she says that she's in a situation in her life where she doesn't know where she belongs, sometimes she wishes, that she wouldn't exist and so on (you gotta consider that she's emo - as the subculture, and I don't mean that in an negative way).
And then she said, that the last thing that she wants is to hurt anyones feelings.
Then I've realized that persisting for the number would make me a douche bag so I've just said: "OK, then lets leave it as it is, we can still stay in touch", and she agreed.
So that's what happened. After that I had to end the conversation, because I was getting late for job (and not because it made me feel uncomfortable to continue to talk to her).
To tell the truth, I was and still am disappointed on how it worked out, but on the other hand I'm glad that I know where I'm at with this girl.
And also, the type of the girl that I'm looking is that she doesn't have such drama in her life,that she has her sh** together.
I don't know about you guys, but I still appreciate her honesty about the whole situation.
What do you think?