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    Default What do you think is going on here.

    I met this girl a while a go, we've been talking and trying to actually hang out but between the both of us crap keeps coming up and it's been difficult. On new years I was going to call or text her at some point during the night b/c it seemed appropriate for where we were at. I actually figured she expected it, but I ended up losing my phone for 24 hours. I texted her when I got my phone back, no response. Again 3 or 4 days later, nothing. It's pretty unlike her to not respond to me, in fact she's NEVER failed to return my calls or texts so I'm a bit stumped. Does it sound like she may actually be upset she hasn't heard from me for a few days? I'm not one-itised here but she is pretty hot and she seemed to be damn near in love with me so. Maybe her temperature dropped when I didn't come through or disappeared for a couple days? Opinions?
    Last edited by Miko; 01-06-2010 at 09:35 AM.

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    Default Re: What do you think is going on here.

    What did you text her? I don't see her just dropping you like that if she is really "damn near in love with you". Girls don't just do that. Give us those texts bro.

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    Default Re: What do you think is going on here.

    The first one was just 'Hey baby', the usual, which always got a prompt reply. The second one was 'Hey babe, I disappeared on you, how r u'. Nothing special but I always kept the first one short. The second, I figured I'd kinda turn it around on her but still nothing.

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    I find it hard to believe that she would just stop talking to you if you two are this close. By my standards it would be time to move on. I only text or call a girl twice. If I don't get a response I usually just call someone else, but since your texts were similar I would go ahead and go for a third one in a few days. Don't chase her, it will make you look needy. Go see some other women and get your mind off of her for the moment. If you don't hear from her in a few days send a different message. Something about how you went out with a group of friends and just had the night of your life. I don't remember where I saw it, but somebody used a line about a girl having a drinking contest with them. You could do the same. And I would slip in a little...too bad you weren't there because you would have had a great night! It shows that you aren't sitting around waiting on her reply, and that you are gonna be just fine if she doesn't respond.

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    This is a good example of guys thinking that if a women is tolerating you, then she must be in love with you.

    Dude, I do waaaaaaaay worse to women, and they put up with it, and even a bit more. Have you had sex with her yet? How long have you known her?
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    Default Re: What do you think is going on here.

    Quote Originally Posted by Instinct View Post
    This is a good example of guys thinking that if a women is tolerating you, then she must be in love with you. Dude, I do waaaaaaaay worse to women, and they put up with it, and even a bit more. Have you had sex with her yet? How long have you known her?
    Just to clarify, I meant in love with me to the greatest extent possible without having actually spent a significant amt of time together. She was sending me all kinds of retarded 'i love you' animations and dumb $hit like that(yeah, she's young). Trust me, she was ready to go. I think maybe what happened is that I missed the opportunity when her buying temp was really really hot and now I got to back up a step or two. I'm really just trying to analyze this so I don't make the same mistakes again, whatever they may have been.

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    Default Re: What do you think is going on here.

    Have you had sex with her yet? How long have you known her?

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    I actually think that "Misplaced the phone so my New year greetings are delayed. How are you?!" would have been a better message, if you guys are really as close as you think you are. But anyway, I think she's moved on so I guess you also better

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    Default Re: What do you think is going on here.

    Quote Originally Posted by Instinct View Post
    Have you had sex with her yet? How long have you known her?
    Met her a year ago. Just occasionally texted late at night every couple months until a few weeks ago. Haven't had sex with her, we've been trying for a meetup and had a couple set up, I had to cancel the first, she canceled the second and was ridiculously apologetic and called me early the next morning but I was sleeping(since I went out bar partying that night instead). It's been a logistical nightmare. I just think her temp's dropping since things haven't been working out and I failed to keep the momentum by not contacting her for a few days. We were talking or txting almost every night for a week or two at that point.

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    Default Re: What do you think is going on here.

    So if you were me, we are going to put you into Instinct's chair with what you have told me so far, what do you think Instinct?


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