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Thread: Should I spend time on a girl who can't date right now?

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    Default Should I spend time on a girl who can't date right now?

    So basically I've been talking to a girl I've known for months, she likes me and I like her. When I brought up the topic of dating she says she doesn't want to right now, I'm guessing because her parents don't like her dating out of her race (I'm black, she's white) but I'm not sure. She also said that even if she could date her parents wouldn'tthe her go out until she's 18, and she just turned 17. So should I wait for this girl, or move on?
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    Default Re: Should I spend time on a girl who can't date right now?

    If by wait you mean, don't have sex with other women or make any advances in the PUA aspect of your life until she is 18, then you should ask yourself what you're doing on this forum. Otherwise, go meet other women and unless this girl moves off to a different part of the world, she'll probably still be around when she's 18. Don't beat yourself up over it.

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    Default Re: Should I spend time on a girl who can't date right now?

    You shouldn't have to put your life and growth on hold and wait for any girl, especially one who doesn't want to commit. Besides. if the attraction is very strong, no rules can keep you apart. Sounds like too much incompatibilities here and you are both young. There's lots of girls out there. Go out there and start hunting. It's the only way you're going to grow.

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    Default Re: Should I spend time on a girl who can't date right now?

    Thanks for the reply, I appreciate it. I am talking to other girls though and getting my conversation skills up, but I'm talking to this girl with the intent of dating. She's a pretty cool girl and all, but I don't want to lose my chance with her because I didn't wait and she found someone else. I'm probably just being a little girl about the situation lol. And she also said she doesn't want to lose me, cause if we date and break up she's afraid I won't talk to her anymore (probably won't anyways). I'm usually not faced with these conditions so I don't know what to do
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    Default Re: Should I spend time on a girl who can't date right now?

    Don't get all bent out of shape on what she says. Don't "wait" for her. If she liked you enough she wouldn't be saying this stuff, she would be with you. Don't ever believe a girls "excuse". They are full of excuses because they are women. Women are indirect by nature and will not tell you the "real" reason because they don't want to be in an uncomfortable situation.

    If you hear anything along these lines in the future remember it's B.S. and she isn't THAT into you: "I don't know what I want" "I need to find myself" "I'm not ready to date" "I'm too young/old for you" or any other variation. If she was REALLY into you, nothing would stop it from happening.

    Don't push for anything. Still talk to her and flirt like crazy, but see other women. If she is truly interested in you she won't want to see you with someone else, and she will break her "rules".

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    Default Re: Should I spend time on a girl who can't date right now?

    Thanks direct, those are some great points that I'll be definitely paying attention to now!
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    Default Re: Should I spend time on a girl who can't date right now?

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    If she was REALLY into you, nothing would stop it from happening.

    Don't push for anything. Still talk to her and flirt like crazy, but see other women. If she is truly interested in you she won't want to see you with someone else, and she will break her "rules".
    I agree with this completely....

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    Default Re: Should I spend time on a girl who can't date right now?

    My personal opinion is don't wait. Move on. Also my suggestion is to not just stick with one kind of girl. Go out with black girls too. If you only like white girls ask yourself why. I'm not saying don't go out with white girls but it's about your comfort level as well as hers. So if you only like white girls then do what you have to do. Not all white girls like black men just like not all black girls like black men(believe it or not). Hey women are weird. What can I say. Good luck to you.

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    Default Re: Should I spend time on a girl who can't date right now?

    I understand yah mystik, I do jump are from race to race. It doesn't really matter the race to me if they look good. But I agree with you, these girls are crazy out here!
    Just another noob pua artist

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    Default Re: Should I spend time on a girl who can't date right now?

    Only if legal. If she's 17 and you're 18+, wait. That's the problem with going direct and showing intent. The better way is to game her til close and determine if you want to date after the fact.
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