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Thread: Online Openers...but for "Stuck-Up" girls

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    Question Online Openers...but for "Stuck-Up" girls

    So I'm not one to call girls bitches even when they are, but in the most descriptive way...what do you say for the girls who have stuck-up profiles telling them they get 100s of messages a day, give a laundry list of things they don't want & other things generally turning people off in an unfriendly manner?

    The girls haven't looked back at my profile or gotten back online yet so idk if they've worked, but I sent one that said something like,

    "Btw...

    You want any fries with the list of other stuff you want in a guy? Cuz I got this coupon for personality issues 1/2 off...just saying "

    Yes it's original (idk of good or not) designed to kind of make fun, but end in a nice playful nudge. Any critiques...ideas??

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    Default Re: Online Openers...but for "Stuck-Up" girls

    Honestly, I just don't message those women at all. If they come off like that in their profile just imagine how they are in real life. Not my type, otherwise I don't have any advice for you. Maybe twentynine or T-Mal can chime in on this one. Those guys have it down.

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    Default Re: Online Openers...but for "Stuck-Up" girls

    First off, are you an asshole or a nice guy? You can't be both, choose one.. I would lean more towards nice guy.. Here's why:

    Being a d1ck might work with these types of ladies in real life, sadly though, online it doesn't often do the trick. It works in real life because it triggers all the emotions in a split second that she's not used to feeling, and short circuits her mind in a way. Online she's just reading text off of a screen.

    The second part of my reasoning is, you aren't the only guy taking that approach to messaging bitchy girls, it's far from an original idea, and she's used to reading it. It takes balls to do it in real life and that's why it works.

    There is a common denominator that I've found works with pretty much any type of girl. The 3 main ingredients to this are confident, funny and interesting, and I tend go for shorter openers but that's just me. That's what works for me (it took trial and error to figure that out, trust me).

    I have a pretty lengthy list of my own openers I've come up with that I sometimes use, but a lot of times I just base it on the girls profile.

    Here's one I sent today.. "I quite strictly don't talk to my ex's.. I'm glad you agree on that one enough to mention it.

    Big fan of staying in. Contrary to popular belief, some men even like to cuddle!.. I prefer big spoon though and I'm pretty stubborn about it"


    See the push/pull there? Any time I mention something like "I like to cuddle" I also throw in something to take it away a bit "I prefer big spoon though, and I'm pretty stubborn about it". It takes it away and also is a disqualifier. "I like to cuddle" on it's own is creepy. Make sense?

    I've had some incredible success and replies from opening with telling girls I'm pregnant and that it's theirs, or asking if it's weird for a man to take a bubble bath (my new favourite and I'm not gonna give away the wording just yet cause I like it too much.. Lol)

    You can also open with something about yourself if it's funny. I got a message once from a girl telling me I have "superhero eyebrows" and asking me if I'm actually Batman. Best message I've ever gotten. I took two openers from it! "I have superhero eyebrows" (awesome responses, girls like my eyebrows for some reason.. Also who the hell says that? It's ridiculous and pretty funny) and "I'm Batman, keep it a secret and this just might work.."

    If you don't feel confident that you'd be able to carry out being funny or witty enough to keep the convo going in that direction, you could just focus more on being different and interesting. Keep in mind though it's that thought on it's own that's for the most part stopping you from carrying out a fun and interesting conversation. Don't focus too much on the outcome.

    Alright that's all I got. There are many ways of doing it and this is simply what works for me. Have fun and be playful.. Flirt!


    K bye.

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    Default Re: Online Openers...but for "Stuck-Up" girls

    @twentynine wow thank you so much man. The pregnant line/idea is pure gold. But yeah @DirectIsBest you're right, but every now and then I see these girls who seem to have promise...but just rant on their profile. And I can relate and almost went on a "what the eff is wrong with you people" profile out of pure frustration.

    But again twentynine, thanks so much for that response. I wasn't expecting much, but that made my day

    Any other advice/experiences anyone...?

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    Default Re: Online Openers...but for "Stuck-Up" girls

    You're welcome. Happy to help

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    Default Re: Online Openers...but for "Stuck-Up" girls

    Definitely go for being the fun guy rather than cocky, in online game.

    However, your opener IS more original & interesting than what most guys would send, so there's a decent chance you'll get a response.
    But it COULD be a defensive one, which means you'll have to work on diffusing that before continuing.

    But I gotta give you props for at least thinking along the right lines & being more confident!

    And funny!!
    I've also used a "super-hero" line in a few openers too... or one of the subsequent messages.

    I've said "Ya know, I have successfully protected my super-hero identity for the past 2 decades... but I almost trust you enough to reveal that secret to you. "

    It's playful AND has just enough tease-factor to hook the girl & draw her in.

    The main thing is, always keep track of your progress & remember what works & what doesn't..... and always learn!



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    Default Re: Online Openers...but for "Stuck-Up" girls

    You want any fries with the list of other stuff you want in a guy? Cuz I got this coupon for personality issues 1/2 off...just saying "

    I like it. but I would lose the just saying part but leave the smiley face

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    Default Re: Online Openers...but for "Stuck-Up" girls

    Yeah I'll fix that thanks for the critiques


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