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Thread: Question about FB #2: She's a model and just friended me

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    Default Question about FB #2: She's a model and just friended me

    I doubted she would add me. Don't know her and she's pretty hot. The hot ones want a message right away online or they delete you 3 days later so I did. Okay so the last one didn't go over so well I sent about 30 messages through my other FB account after I got blocked. I know it was lame but she was a 10 and I really liked her. Here we go again...just friended another 9 but she is a model (I have hit on girls hotter than her you know 10's!). So here we go I'll let you know how it goes messaging her now...

    Basically on the 10 I got blocked after the 3rd message and got two replies from her. She wasn't responding and somehow blocked my view so I couldn't see if she was online. I felt this could be bad and it was cuz I stayed on FB all day waiting for her reply and I have a feeling she was watching and saw me online all day which might have creeped her out. I friended the model and just sent her a total A-hole Nice Guy text. Told her she reminded me of my ex. I am just done caring. I tried so hard to be nice and watch my words with the 10 and the opposite effect I wanted happened. So I sent this model a message that might piss her off and get me blocked but oh well like I rely on FB anyway..

    Not to mention she was online 10 minutes later likely still scoping my profile. So it looks like she might have a semi-crush on me already but I could sign in tomorrow and get my head ripped off or be blocked so never cross your fingers on these girls on FB. They are wild and crazy and just well crazy. So my question is what should I do if she responds? I feel this girl likes me and I was right the 10 liked me that was why she was watching my activity on FB all day. So I know she likes me however now I can't sign in whenever the hell I want cuz remember the 10 blocked me cuz she saw me always online and thought I was some creeper with no mystery. Any suggestions?
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    Default Re: Question about FB #2: She's a model and just friended me

    WTF is going on? As I said I will be updating my progress reports on this one. She doesn't have her view blocked (Thank God!). So a lot easier. Saw she read my message one minute later and stayed on for 45 min (likely scoping me out). Afterwards just go to like a photo and she got online again (like I said they watch me like a freaking hawk). Luckily haven't been on the whole time just get on send something real quick and then get off. But she is obviously up to no good I can see from the start she will be trouble. Don't doubt getting a cold fish, getting blocked, yelled at, sh!t tested, women man why do they do this crap? I have no clue just rolling with the punches.
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    Default Re: Question about FB #2: She's a model and just friended me

    You still haven't posted the conversation from the last one who blocked you, so it's hard to assess. The extent I saw was you told her "Just wanted to see if there's chemistry" which right there is something I would never write. It's so wrong on so many levels!

    Bear in mind a lot of these models do not respond unless they personally know the person. They add guys so it looks like they have a sizeable following and make them look good with their 3000 friends! Their updates/posts are also loaded with chump fanboi comments. Out of their 3000 friends, how many guys do you think are pming them? Many times it falls on deaf ears. Keep your expectations low.

    I advise you to get some intel. Find out if she responds to other people's comments. If not, chances are that fb page is more for marketing/publicity.

    As for what to say and how to open them? There is no magic formula that work on all women. But a good place to start is look up T-Mal's guides. Fun/flirty/playful is his formula. It's going to take some wit. It's going to take some creativity on your end to stand out and telling her "Just wanted to see if there is chemistry" is not one of them! In fact, this is something you would see on T-Mal's DO NOT DO list. Telling her she looks like your ex. Okaaay. That's something I would tell a Stripper in person. Online, she will throw you in the fanboi category.

    Also your anxiety is getting the best of you. almost bordering on paranoia as if the FBI is wire tapping you. You are overthinking and making a lot of assumptions that the girl is online scoping out your profile. No they don't like you unless you are a high status individual like a celeb. Heck, if they are using a mobile device, sometimes the app automatically logs them in when they are recharging the phone. Also, sometimes they have a service that manns their page as well.

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    Default Re: Question about FB #2: She's a model and just friended me

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    WTF is going on? As I said I will be updating my progress reports on this one. She doesn't have her view blocked (Thank God!). So a lot easier. Saw she read my message one minute later and stayed on for 45 min (likely scoping me out). Afterwards just go to like a photo and she got online again (like I said they watch me like a freaking hawk). Luckily haven't been on the whole time just get on send something real quick and then get off. But she is obviously up to no good I can see from the start she will be trouble. Don't doubt getting a cold fish, getting blocked, yelled at, sh!t tested, women man why do they do this crap? I have no clue just rolling with the punches.
    I told you, I told you, and I told you. She just yelled at me. Says "Homeboy you are one weird a$$ mother F-er." So total diss I just said "Ty you too, I try to be the best badass I can be so this is great news!" Totally spun it on her but likely she won't like that and will come back on and diss me even harder. Aww!! Been getting a lot of heat lately just becoming apathetic to it all. Here we go again. By the way found out she has a BF.
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    Default Re: Question about FB #2: She's a model and just friended me

    And I told you, told you, told you...telling her that "she reminded you of your ex" will get you nowhere online. I mean what kind of response were you expecting out of that? "Aww thank you. You are so sweet. Your ex must be beautiful. Here's my number! XXX-XXX-XXXX"

    It could be misconstrued as a backhanded comment. Online is not the same as in person because you can't see the context of wording.

    I don't know what else you said to her or what your profile look like so can't help you beyond that.

    All I know is when I hit up girls I don't know on fb (which I rarely do), I either get a positive response or no response. FB is not really the best place for pickup.

    I highly suggest you read up some stuff like Cajun's Guide to Online Dating He has tons of examples of his exchanges and there is a reason why he is successful. Start investing in yourself. And I don't mean getting tattoos. It's fine to be apathetic, but if you don't care enough to learn from your strikes out, then you won't get closer to any homeruns.

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    Default Re: Question about FB #2: She's a model and just friended me

    Whatever I did it worked! As I say bi-polar man. She replied with a big thumbs up when I said that and also said something about sunshine and rainbows which I think she liked. My guess is the way I act plus I have a feeling she has been creeping my FB page after all how did she come to said conclusion? Don't know my next move cuz she has a BF but she is technically cheating by flirting with me/giving me mixed signals. No idea what to say without screwing it up. I got the validation now not sure cuz I usually screw up this sequence. It's when they don't like me I am good at convincing them otherwise. Crazy how last night a girl was really nice to me in the store on a blow out and called me "sweet" which made me feel like dog crap all night and morning then a girl comes on totally b!tchy from the start and I go Alpha where last night at the store I went Beta. Oh I get it! The reference experience from last night made me feel apathetic to her b!tchy reply. Normally this would piss me off royally and stifle me but it just made me feel great cuz I was so freaking low I misinterpreted it to make it like she was complimenting me. To which she ended up complimenting me.

    However she just made a post about her BF and them chilling aka farking so I think I am up the creek on this one oh well. Mobile phones suck I didn't see she had a BF till I got on PC. So yeah I am dead in the water. Oh well good run onto St. Paddy's Parade sarging w/my wing! By the way I am getting more tattoos. My first tatt gets SO much attention people's eyes are always darting there plus get tons of questions and compliments. So you know not going overboard but my next is two koi fish gonna make me look sick as fark can't wait.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
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