Okay, I've been working my text game with two girls so far and I'm currently stuck in a pickle and I don't know what to do or if I even should do anything. My gut is telling me to just sit back and allow to whatever happens to happen. I think I don't need to continue engaging, but I'd really like for this to go my way, I just don't know the next step to making it happen. So, any help would be as always appreciated.
Here are the text dialogue.
Me: Team Hardy or team Carroll?
Her: Definitely team hardy!
Me: It's Kevin Bacon isn't it? He had you with his wicked dance moves in Footloose. lol
Her: yes 'm just waiting for ryan hardy to say "let's dance"
Me: What a coincidence, me to
Her: lmaoo with a smiley face crying from laughter
Me: Are you a good dancer by any chance or is there a lot of stumbling going on when you're on the dance floor?
Her: Nope I don't dance at all...lol
Me: What?!? That't not good for your hip's health lol you gotta shake them every once in a while lol
Her: nope lmaoo
Me: So, for example, if you ever get asked out to a club or somewhere to dance, what excuse do you make up?
Her: i hate going out
Me: Lol ok. What do you like doing instead?
Her: I'm kind of in the process of getting back together to ex so I don't think it's a good idea
Me: Oh, another man! Lmao. Hey, it's ok, you're right, it isn't a good idea. Kevin Bacon is not going to be happy though. You have my #, if the ex remains an ex, shot me a text.
Her: Ok lol
Girl 2 is bit longer so I'm going to try to summarize it as best as I can and as clear as possible so that it makes sense.
BTW, in both cases, I never started by saying, "Hey, Its me." I just jumped right in by saying something that was related to what was said in person and they automatically knew it was me and didn't ask who I was. So, that's good I guess.
Ok Girl 2.
Me: How is it that you're only 19 and so damn cool? You must be an alien or something. Yeah, that must be it. A cool alien from a cool planet lol
Her: Thanks I didn't know you had to be a certain age to be cool though lol I am an alien though.
Me: I knew it!!
Her: You're pretty cool too so you must be an alien.
Me: First you say I'm entertaining and super cool by including me in the class comment you made. Then you said I'm super smart and easy going by again including me in the class comment. And now you're directly calling me cool and that I also must be an alien. Hmm, this can only mean one thing...lol
Her: That I'm friendly? I'm not crushing on anyone in the class, I just think everyone is cool
Me: You want to kidnap me and steal me away to your alien planet! How dare you lol
Her: Ahh you caught me! Yes I kidnap fellow cool people
Me: Lmao, "crushing"! Lol you fell for that one! lol
Her: People think because I'm friendly that I'm flirting so yeah
Then we kept texting, but mostly about school stuff.
I ask her out to a music festival. I write like this: "Hey, speaking of weekend, you doing anything on Saturday? I might be able to score some free tickets to some cool music festival. Interested??
Her: Omg I wish, I have to write an annotated bibliography and finish an essay, both due Monday. Thanks for the offer though.
Me: Hey, no problem. Some other time though, just let me know when your schedule's free. Bye E.T lol
Her: Haha E.T. my favorite nickname now lol
It's a long post, sorry about that. If there's anything that anyone of you sees in there and feel like could critique it or give me some advice on, telling me what I'm doing bad or what I'm doing good, the please comment down below. I'm going to be refreshing the page every so often to read your comments. Thank again guys.