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    Default How to ask about relationship status unawkwardly?

    How does one ask somebody if they are in a relationship these days? This sounds dumb but it is a legitimate question. I remember in middle school it was "will you go out with me?" but we are well past that. Recent girlfriends I've had it pretty much went down like this: we went on a date, we fucked, I asked later if we were in a relationship (felt so awkward, but they were girls I had a thing for for awhile so I wanted one with them so I did it anyway) to which they either said yes and giggled or would ask if I really wanted to (indicating we were both unsure about the situation) and be all happy about it. How do you know when your at the point where you call yourselves boyfriend and girlfriend without saying something like that? I'm upgrading my standards to "hard" girls that are 8 or above for girlfriends so I can avoid the other dude being inside my girl thought as much as possible so if I'm doing that, I obviously can't fuck them before I establish that we are a couple exclusive to each other.

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    Default Re: How to ask about relationship status unawkwardly?

    No. You don't ever talk about that sort of thing until after sex.

    Just take it one step at a time and keep seeing the girl, keep being awesome and she will hopefully start to like you, and become emotionally attached. If she doesn't bring it up, I would bring it up after the 3rd time you guys have sex. "Will you go out with me" is actually a good line if you're being funny and playful, so you can say it sarcastically and then laugh followed by "Seriously though, I like you.. You're pretty cool most of the time". It's always so much more about how you act than what you say. It's more how you say it.

    I have trouble giving advice to guys who don't do the cocky/funny thing. I'm natural cocky/funny, always have been. But, some variation of what I've said should work for you.

    Let her become emotionally attached naturally, having a sex is a huge factor in that. I believe that connecting on a sexual level is important in building AND maintaining a relationship collectively.

    Good luck.

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    Default Re: How to ask about relationship status unawkwardly?

    Ive always just let things be and avoided bringing up "love" or "being a couple" until they decide to say something about it. Then, depending if its way too early for that or if Im on the same page, I just go with it. If youre hanging with a girl, doing the nasty, etc. eventually shes either going to fall for you and bring it up or give you signs that its just a physical thing for her. why make a big deal out of it before you need to?


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