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Thread: Girl and I decide to be Friends after some action the other day.

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    Default Girl and I decide to be Friends after some action the other day.

    So I've been kicking it with this girl for about a month and a half now and we decided yesterday to not take it any farther. We always have a good time together, have laughs etc. Even got a little hot and heavy a few days ago (not all the way.) I really do like this girl, but this is the only way it could be. I reckon. I told her we probably shouldn't talk for a while. She agreed and then all of a sudden I get a text from her saying.

    "I know I said I wouldn't text you, but this is what was on tv when I turned it on...I feel compelled, and confused."

    And sent me a video of what it was. It was a Pink Floyd song. She knows that I'm a die hard Floyd fan.

    I haven't replied yet, but I was wondering. Do you think there could be anything behind it, or just coincidence?

    Hope ta hear back.

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    Default Re: Girl and I decide to be Friends after some action the other day.

    There are too many unspoken variables to really give an accurate opinion... If you could give some more detailed descriptions of the relationship up til this point, it would help answer more accurately.

    -Who objected first when things got heated?
    -Why do you say that "its the only way it could be"?
    - Are your motives to potentially date this girl? Shes single?
    -How did she respond in the moment when you escalated physically?
    -Was there a friendzone kinda feel to the relationship before escalating physically?

    Based on what you've given us, I would assume pulling back was a good move. Its also a good sign that she has taken the initiative to contact you.
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    Default Re: Girl and I decide to be Friends after some action the other day.

    What do you mean who objected first? And what I meant by that it's just like we're off and on and I'm tired of going back and forth, but on the inside I wouldn't mind dating this girl. She's Single. And there's moment's when there's hesitation physically, but other times where it happens so fast. And we've kissed before this encounter.

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    Default Re: Girl and I decide to be Friends after some action the other day.

    In my personal opinion, I don't allow the on and off, back and forth bs. If you play it out well and create enough attraction beforehand, she should not treat you like a second option, a fall back plan. If she does... I think you need to pull back (like you did) and show less interest in her, while receiving attention from other girls. Even directly in front of her if need be.
    Give her a little competition and watch how quickly her priorities change. Girls as a whole want a challenge, a chase, an adventure... Not the guy she knows she already has, if she decides she wants it... Not the guy who's emotionally dependent on the outcome and communicating neediness.
    Give her a taste of uncertainty and see if things change.
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    Default Re: Girl and I decide to be Friends after some action the other day.

    Yea that's exactly what I did. I told her I didn't play the back and forth game. I was like make up you're mind or I'll make the decision for you. Then told her we should just get space and she left. I'll give that a try though man and I'll keep you posted.

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    Default Re: Girl and I decide to be Friends after some action the other day.

    if she texted you that then play it cool and keep sleeping with...definitely know you may be keeping options open.on the other hand i see a transition soon.the only thing for you that you might need to implement is cut no contact and keep seeing her.definitely fall back on pushing in this dynamic


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