Met a girl online, late 30's, 6 yr old kid. I'm early 40's, divorced no kids. We have some mutual friends so easy to converse and common interests although we live 2 hrs from each other. Upfront she tells me husband whom she was with 15 yrs, passed away 6 months ago after a prolonged illness.
I'm the first guy she's conversed with and via our mssgs can tell she is a bit naive, a little horny, and has a few issues. Txt progress to phone, then a 'friends' type date a few weeks later where she stayed over weekend. Dinner, concert, then end up sleeping together, sex multiple times and had a great weekend.
Since, she says she is attracted to me and wants to keep having fun together and that its ok if i date others. All is well then one night last week, after she had a lot of drinks, starts txting me asking what i want, are we just friends with benefits, etc... I replied lets just see what happens, no pressure. She apologized next day and not brought up again. Recent conversations lead into phone sex, really hot kinky talk which is kind of blowing my mind that these words come from this conservative looking girl.
My goal is to not screw this up....I truly like and do not want to hurt her. Emotionally she is not the most stable, and i'm probably a rebound sex fling which works for me but open to see where this goes.
Thoughts on how to play this, progress, and anything to avoid?