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Thread: Loosing ball hairs over no replies

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    Default Loosing ball hairs over no replies

    Hi Guys,

    Wow, Looks like I found the real Mecca, this site is sizzling hot,

    Really in need of some serious help!

    OK, so a bit about me? Your not so typical 28yo, never! Never yes get ready for it! Been on a date or done anything with a lady. You guys must be saying “damn is this guy gay or something”. I Suffered from agoraphobia and social anxiety for years, It was so bad I locked away myself until the last year or two. Um so yea is there really any chance for a guy like me?

    I never really noticed women paying attention to me until I started to become more comfortable in my own skin. Now I’m shit scared, women are just everywhere! Those sneaky shy looks, the stiff upper lips. Just so much fun. Sorry guys as you can see I am like a new born baby in the world of women.

    Tried out a few PUA course’s latest is Cory Skyy - Magnetic Mindset, Pretty cool. Now I have gone down the online dating approach to gain a bit of stamina, honestly I feel like giving up. Yes, I have gotten views, never any messages and never any replies to my messages? I am so confused on what I am not doing right?

    I would really like to gain some insight into what I can do to at the very least get a reply [

    My approaches have been starting off with a bit of fun and then rolling back into a slightly intelligent approach. I don't know, but it seems the more intelligent one's want someone who is really just down to earth?

    One other thing, I am from the UK not sure if allot the PUA material applies to the girls over here? Again, I am new born or born again.

    Below is what I have as my about me, Don't think it really does me justice

    Ok… so let’s get started

    I would like to first apologize for the typos I always type before I think, that goes for my mouth too at times?

    I thought I’d throw a few keywords that would describe what I like. If you recognize yourself in some of them, I think it might be worth taking the time to keep on reading my profile and you know hit that message button. If you don’t? Keep on reading, I swear I won’t be upset with you. I will never find out anyway!

    Travel, one of the joys of life, Music (yeah party baby), dancing, sports (I am a big Motorsport fan A woman who can actually drive is essential), books (book worm here.... Well, sort of? I own a kindle if that helps), open mind (that goes for people as well), photography, museum, meditation, craziness (without there would be no fun), spontaneity, going out (but also staying in), sharing, simplicity, respect, down to earth (however fantasy is also very important), people, casual, work, sense of humor about yourself, awareness, kind, caring.

    I do believe that ‘love conquers all,’ but that’s because I’m a hopeless romantic.

    Most of the time, I don’t take myself very seriously. Most of the time.... You shouldn’t, either.

    I am absent-minded at times, laid-back, friendly, kind, crazy, stupid and charming

    So? What’s next?

    Send me a message and we will see +


    I would appreciate any help and I mean ANY! Just want to get on the ladder you know for once in my life to get a GF. Worried about all the nagging to come afterwards.

    Cheers Guys
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    Default Re: Loosing ball hairs over no replies

    It sounds just like most profiles... so it's not going to stand out.
    You need your written profile to be interesting & for your pictures to express excitement & fun. (Not just a couple selfies in the mirror.)

    Don't tell your life story... DO be confident... & leave a little mysteriousness about yourself.

    Right now, you're apologizing to the girls like your profile is inconveniencing them if they click on it. AND giving them the OK to "next" you & move on....

    You definitely need to revamp it & re-invent yourself.


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    Default Re: Loosing ball hairs over no replies

    Hey T-Mal,

    Crap man! I knew my profile was needy ok nerdy, but man to be like one of the norms?

    Really glad you replied to my outcry for help. Just thinking about, I would of messaged another 20-30 no let's say 50 women and losing the plot on why no replies. It's pay back time.

    Recently started the edatingdoc program, it's been ok'ish well learned a thing or two about picture taking.

    What are ladies really looking for here? Fantasy, something or someone different from the rest? Is it all based on humor?

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    Default Re: Loosing ball hairs over no replies

    Women want confidence #1. And humor is always right up there too.
    They want a man who has ambition & drive, and who knows how to be a man & take charge.... and command attention when necessary.

    What really works is when you can let HER create the image of you in her own mind... so don't tell your life story, or every little detail about you.
    Instead, give hints & descriptive insights about yourself; letting her paint that visual image with her imagination. Because she'll picture you as the man she's looking for, if you give her the chance.

    Mos guys screw up by totally going overboard, trying to sell themselves.

    The key is to create curiosity... curiosity = attraction.

    The book I mentioned to you in the PM will give you some great info on what I mean.


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    Default Re: Loosing ball hairs over no replies

    Wait for a day to come when you've had a particularly great day, maybe you went out with friends or accomplished something with work and you've got a big smile on your face, then sit down for five mins and rewrite your profile from scratch. You'll be in the perfect mood to bash out a charming, humorous, and witty blurb about yourself that isn't too serious.

    If you find those days are rare, you can make one happen; maybe you go out to do some exercise, maybe you bike down a hill at top speed, or even just listening to some of your favorite music can get you in an upbeat mood.

    Ultimately you gotta stand out, put a bit of energy into the profile, and be creative with it. I've re-written friends dating profiles as favors... once I rewrote one where the whole thing was a normal blurb about him. I deleted the part about his job and made that a running mysterious gag through the whole profile, leaving quirky clues here and there. The end sentence posed a challenge to the reader: "Message me if you were able to figure out what I do for a job."

    At the end of the day, what's on your profile is not that important. Girls usually judge based on your message and photos. I've been on a few internet dates where the girl has admitted she didn't even look at my profile page!

    So it goes to show this same kind of wittiness should go into your messages to girls too. Try to make a joke about one of their photos or something on their profile. Guys rarely demonstrate they've read a girl's profile in their message.

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    Default Re: Loosing ball hairs over no replies

    Hey T-Mal and Essential17, Many Many thanks for the tips!

    T-Mal, got that book and it rocks! Ok, I did steal some things out of it feel bad.

    Loving the idea of letting her paint the image of who I am in her mind.

    Do you keep profiles, short and sweet, or give it some length?

    I got a marketing friend and well he said it's all about getting yourself out there (his view was selling myself) with the least amount of words possible. Another thing is cocky and being slightly over confident coming across as arrogant. Is that really just a NO NO?

    Essential17 I have been trying to grasp the message sending, just not getting anyway. Hell, I've gotten more replies from a simple wink, then sending messages .

    Ah, but I did get the idea of wittiness, just overly cautious


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