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    Default Post-first-date text

    So a lot of guys usually don't know what to say after a first date, or if they should text anything at all. Well, I'm here to help! Here is exactly what you should text about 30 mins to an hour after a first date:

    "Hey, just checking you got home safe and sound"

    This type of text shows her u care about her, makes her feel protected, and creates intimacy. And another amazing thing will happen. If she likes you, she'll reply. This has not once failed me! I've always had a girl respond positively to this text. After she responds, you have the opportunity to secure a second date, banter some more, and do anything from there.

    Hope this helps guys. Try it out

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    Default Re: Post-first-date text

    I approach it differently. There's no right or wrong here, but I typically wait til the next day before I send a text. I make that text funny, and reference something from the date. After exchanging a couple of messages, I'll leave and then reopen her in a couple of days. I like to let my dates marinate, and despise remaining in constant contact. Here's an example of a first date texting thread I had with a woman a couple of days ago.

    Me: I had a great time Sharquetta. P.S I saw you write something down for the Starbucks lady. It better not have been my number!

    Sharquetta is a ghetto name I gave her while at starbucks. That was me referencing an inside joke from the previous night

    Her: Lol I was about to text you because you never told me if you went home or not. And you know you want a little "Chance" in your life.

    Chance was the name of the lady who made our drinks at starbucks. This was her expanding upon the inside joke.

    Me: I stayed. I'm about to grab a Baguette and then bizzounce. She ripped off my clothes with her eyes. She was looking at me like you were. Hungry for Lonnie (that's me) lol

    Her: Haha idk if that's how I was looking at you but I will agree she was looking a little hungry lol

    I was being real sociable at starbucks and making the people working there laugh. Chance started giving me the anime eyes lol

    Me: Haha. Til next time Jelly Bean. I'm leaving now. Have a wonderful day

    Her: Jelly bean smh thank you. Have a safe drive. And you better stop playing with my emotions sour skittle haha

    Me: Can't even lie haha, that was pretty funny. Thanks

    Her: Lol :P

    Boom mission accomplished. After a good first date, you state how you feel, and keep the interaction light hearted while referencing things only you two would understand. If she had a good time, she'll text you positive messages back. Let everything marinate for a little while, give her time to digest what happened, and then you reopen with the intent of setting up a 2nd date.

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    Default Re: Post-first-date text

    Also a great example. For newbies, its probably a little more advanced, still great. Good job by the way

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    Default Re: Post-first-date text

    Thanks. It is slightly more advanced, but that's only because most guy's over think EVERYTHING. As long as you're not being needy, and seeking her validation, you have room to say pretty much anything. Keeping light and fun/flirty (I'm looking at you T-Mal), are usually your best options though.


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