So, I message this 9 on okcupid. I use an opener I found on these forums that I modified a bit. I also have been getting more responses since I added a second pic, lol. More than one pic helps, anyway, here is the convo:
Me: Hey, i'm sure you must be getting a ton of "hey sexy" messages from weird perverts. However, you look simply adorable I had to say hi
Me: I'm Steve. It's nice to meet you
HB9:it's nice to meet u to
Me: So, what do you like to do for fun in your spare time?
Pretty stale up to here because she didn't really reply with much
HB9: shopping relax sleep cuddle watch movies travel
Me: What a coincidence, i too like to cuddle. I'm kind of a professional ;-p
HB9: yes me to!
Me: I don't believe you. We're gonna have to get together and cuddle so I can see if ur for real
HB9: I don't believe u either than
Me: Alright. Then we're gonna have to cuddle together. When are you free to get together?
HB9: I'm freee when ever... with the exception of school
Me: How about friday
HB9: that's finnnnneee
And I talked a little from there, got the number, flirted and built some rapport, and I'm going to her place tonight. Keep in mind that convo took place 2 days ago.
I'll let ya'll know what happens. But yeah, I just went for it cuz I didn't think she was into it cuz she wasn't replying with much, and I turned it into something. These types of things are rare tho. I usually banter, role play, and talk more online before I go for a date, and I usually do coffee, not go over to her apartment lol.